By Username - 14/04/2011 06:59

Today, my boyfriend punched a hole in a door. This is on top of the broken handle, cracked sink top, dented fridge, and other holes in the wall he has also made. We are 4 months into our year lease. I don't think we are getting our $720 deposit back. FML
I agree, your life sucks 27 696
You deserved it 18 880

Same thing different taste

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kinga08 0

I think you have more serious things to worry about than getting back a $720 deposit. You have an extremely violent boyfriend that can't control his anger. I'd be more concerned about that.

sourgirl101 28

Tick tock tick tock- Soon it will be you he comes after. Learn the signs. He obviously can't control his anger.

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katiemarie23 0

My boyfriend used to be like that. Then again he broke things because he lost the nerves in the upper half of his body so he couldn't feel how much pressure he was using....

you need to dump him before he uses you as a punching bag. sounds like a duche who has major control problems

flyboy96 0

As others have said, you need to leave him. Find yourself another place and talk to your landlord to see if you can get out of the lease; don't care about what your boyfriend will have to do in order to stay there. I speak from experience: I dated, and then was engaged to, a guy for almost 9 years. He started out calling me horrible names, yelling at me, and hitting things, and at the end, ended up hitting me in the head so hard that he damaged my inner ear and disabled me for a year. I worked full-time almost the entire time we were together. Even supported us when he lost his job at times, but one of the times he somehow was able to buy a brand new motorcycle. (So he paid the insurance on the bike, while I paid the rent, power, food, my gas, his gas, his bike payment, and everything else!) Don't do what I did - get out now, before you've invested so much time and effort and money, and before he really hurts you. It was harder for me to leave when he and I were renting-to-own a house together because his name was on it, too, so I couldn't just kick him out. Only after I pulled his gun on him during a fight did he stop hurting me physically. Once we broke up, he stalked me for over a year. Don't wait that long to be strong. Get your act together, make sure you have someone to rely on and support you, and then break up with your abusive-sounding boyfriend. Don't co-sign anything with him or you'll be left with the bill; believe me.

you deserve it because this action didn't result in him being your ex

Can you say "anger management class"?

r u talkin bout adam from the real world??

get rid of him. if his anger problems require him to hit or break something, it could turn out bad. Even if he doesn't turn abusive he will still never be a good person to buy a house with. no nice things.

roid rage much or hes just ******* crazy lol