By SickOfYourShit - 16/12/2015 15:41 - United States - Kennewick

Today, my boyfriend's bitch of a mother had surgery and now I'm expected to be her at-home nurse. I haven't been able to sit down for more than 5 minutes thanks to her and I've barely slept. FML
I agree, your life sucks 22 289
You deserved it 2 984

Same thing different taste

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You're expected? As in your boyfriend asked you and you agreed? Or you felt as though you had no choice..? Kinda a dick move if the second, sorry OP.

Xobubblyxo 23

I think you should talk to your boyfriend because he's probably unaware of the problem

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And you're agreeing to do this why exactly?

OP, I we did everything people expect us to do... Tell your boyfriend you can't do it. That's she's being a bitch and you need help. He knows him mom, remember that!

You should see if you can get some at-home interns to cover some of the work. They're usually eager to help but prone to cartoonish fantasies and talking to their surgeon friends.

That sucks but good on you to sacrifice your time to help someone so rude. You're the modern day Good Samaritan!!!

Sounds like your the one with the bitchy attitude. Excuse her for having surgery.

Coming from someone who doesn't know the difference between your and you're, personally I think you should keep your opinion to yourself. :)

I don't think the surgery is the issue. A person who hates you that you have to take care of is probably going to use it to make your life hell because they have the chance.

Actually, I've received an award and a scholarship for my English class and writer's craft. I was the first person to see my mistake, but I let it go, because I'm not uptight. My self worth doesn't come from my grammar. Clearly you don't have much to say if you automatically target my grammar. My point still stands. Whether the mother is a bitch or not, she is still a human being and just had surgery. She should show respect for her boyfriend's mother. I'm sure he'd appreciate that. Especially considering the circumstances.

You're still a leafs fan though :P. Ha ha just jokes.

She is TAKING CARE of said mother, #62! I don't see any other way to show more appreciation than that. The BF's mom just had surgery? Yes. But she still got someone to look after her and she's not even a real family member (not even a wife yet!). I bet she has sisters and maybe even a daughter and none of them are taking care of her. But OP is. So she'd better shut the hell up, stop bitching around and be extremely thankful to OP.

It's nice of you to help but, remember dating is your chance to decide whether you like not only the boyfriend but his family as well. She probably won't stop being a bitch because your married.

You are not expected to be at her beck and call. She's only your boyfriend's mother not your mother-in-law. Just help out how you can;n go about your business.

This is her childrens job, not yours, stop looking after her and being a doormat

I guess I am a little confused. It's flare at to be nice, but where is your boyfriend? Other family members? If she really needs the help, then perhaps an aide would be helpful. Some insurances pay for them. Don't be someone else's doormat.

ohsnapword 21

If you volunteered for it or were somehow roped into it, FYL. If your job is an in-home nurse and you're being paid to take care of her, then YDI.