By Now What - 08/09/2016 17:04 - United States - South Otselic

Today, my boyfriend told me he only loves me sometimes. He explained what days he chooses to love me and what days he doesn't want to. I told him that's not how it works. He disagreed. He's 27. He still doesn't understand why this is a problem. FML
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Same thing different taste

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This reminds me of that YouTube kid who says he only likes his mommy when she gives him cookies. I think your boyfriend may actually be a two-year-old.

He sounds like an excessively spoilt child. I doubt whether talking will help much, he seems to be stubborn too. If he wants to act like a child treat him like one. I don't mean for you to physically discipline him, but you need to show him that he can't always get what he wants.

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Dump him and move on with your life. And try not to date morons in the future.

Ok if he only loves you sometimes where does that unused love go, flushed, in the trash, put away for a rainy day??? There are so many questions. Yes OP don't stay any longer with this "person".

Well, then. You're only dating on the days he loves you, so go out and get a real man.

saffy66 34

This man needs a mental health professional. Perhaps as a gesture to show him what love is really about, you should help him find one before you dump him.

I well then leave him wondering what "I'm outta here but only on days that end with Y"

Run! Sounds like he has NPD traits- it will only get worse

cootiequeen4444 11

they might mean narcissistic personality disorder. that is the only NPD I know that is a psychology term. I'm rusty with my psych know how, however, so I could be wrong

Friday I'm in love by The Cure springs to mind.

arquerk 7

Meh. As long as he's faithful EVERY day. Pick your battles.

1. Wha? 2. How does he manage to choose when to love? 3. What makes him choose particular days? 4. Wha?