'If he doesn't want to have sex with you (either temporarily or even for the future) then he doesn't want to have sex with you. Your life isn't ****** for it.' It is when he never wants it, because then it's him who doesn't respect OP's feelings. Oh, and if this FML is actually about OP who discovered her boyfriend believes in heaven, then it's still a FML, because it means that they have a totally different view of life (there is a god and a heaven versus there is no god and heaven), which can evidentally ruin the relationship. Nothing to be -_- about. Gmc_Blossom got my point. If my boyfriends mother died, and he would use the same excuse to avoid sex as OP's boyfriend, then I would be astonished. Dead people going to heaven is just not my lifestyle (nor that of my boyfriend, so I'm pretty safe). Sorry for the misunderstanding, people. (This comment should not stand here, but in the discussion that I started. I hope FML will set it on the right place.)