Yeah, but at least you'll have your accolades as Number One Pig Lover to fall back on.

A dad like that isn't worth wasting time on anyway, despite how much you want to. You'd likely only be disappointed. sorry op

Maybe he wants to work on his long-distance relationship with you? Let's go with that.

I seriously hope your sister will have your back on this one and not go. That is absolutely horrible!

Wow. Keep that toxic asshole out of your life, you don't need him.

Jfc what a piece of shit dad.

what an ass. don't worry op I had a dad like that growing up only wanted my younger sister along but I turned out for the better you will to love.

Is there any chance it was whom was spending time with whom? Like your sister and him on thanksgiving therefore you spend thanksgiving with your mother? Like if he chose you instead your sister would spend time with your mother? Sorry if this doesn't make sense, it does in my head I'm horrible at wording things.

Your dad is a piece of shit. You will do better without him. Stay strong.

My dad refuses to talk to my brother because last time he did it he cried. Maybe why your dad didn't invite you was something similar.