By ApparentlyNotEno - 05/06/2013 20:40 - United States - Martinsburg

Today, my fiancée told me that she wants us to have an open marriage. She reasons that since she doesn't equate sex with love, there's no logical reason for me to be against her having sex with other people. FML
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ApparentlyNotEno 28

OP here. We've actually had a threesome together and loved it. But she specifically wants to be with other men without me there.

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actually the worst fml I've seen today, my condolences

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There's no logical reason you shouldn't dump her.

Kc1001 14

Yah, she doesn't know the importance of sex between married people. I was in a relationship similar to this and it ruined me for two years. but the woman I was with never had sex with either of those guys. Get out now. most likely she is cheating on you and she likes it.

Be thankful you found this shit out before you signed over your stuff. She wants a ****-buddy, not a spouse.

Open relationships do work, but only when both parts agree to do it. As a matter of fact, I know some couples who are into threesomes, swinging and even some one-night-stands, and they seem to separate well the casual sex from their marriages. But this lifestyle is not for everybody, and it seems that OP is not interested in it at all. And I understand OP, because I don't think I can have a healthy marriage while having sex with other women. If I did it, I would always think I am a cheating husband, so I prefer to have an exclusive relationship.

rubyliu8420 7

Just fu** all of her friends & see if she changes her mind.

Understandable......if you don't like it tell her to find another person for her to be in that relationship with.

Inkedldd 8

Can't turn a hoe into a housewife .

She basically wants to be single and have all your money at the same time..... Drop that bitch

Neorotoxin 2

I'm sorry to hear that she wants something else with marriage than you do. At least you are lucky enough that she told you before you actually got married, and is open about it instead of sneaking behind your back. I would suggest seriously considering whether or not marrying her is the right thing to do. If neither of you changes, could you continue to love her even knowing she is sleeping with other men? Or would you end up resenting her for it?