By Anonymous - 04/02/2013 17:17 - United States - Durham

Today, my girlfriend lost her virginity. I still have mine, though. FML
I agree, your life sucks 59 416
You deserved it 3 890

Same thing different taste

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I hope you lost your girlfriend too. that's a horrible thing to do to someone.

That's awful that you were both virgins and you held out for her for your first time, holding this future moment dearly, and she just throws it away and shows it means nothing to her, that you weren't even the one for her, really, since she didn't lose it to you. DOn't usually say dump her, but these are horrible circumstances.

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ErictheRed 5

You are doing it wrong if she managed to lose her virginity and you didn't. Just saying.

The FML doesn't state HOW the girlfriend lost her virginity. If she cheated, I'll go with the "dump her" crew. If she was raped, she'll really need your loving support; hope you can see past the virginity loss to give it. Either case is a challenge. Good luck, OP.

Are you an idiot? Do you really think that OP would come here and post something like this if his gf was raped?

99 - In very religious places in the US, some nearly worship virginity, and have public discussions of "legitimate rape." Some guys would complain about the virginity part if his girlfriend was raped.

I'm going to go out on a limb and suggest this was consensual on the part of the girlfriend, which sucks. But to be fair, yeah, there's a lot of asshole misogyny in religion that considers virginity gone even if a woman is raped and even blames her for it. I hope this is not the case.

Hold onto it. Once you lose it, it's hard trying to find it again. Hell, you even try taking someone else's because you can't find your own

You can't find it again.. That's the thing about losing it - it's gone. That very first time only happens once. :/

same exact thing happened to me about 5 years ago, she didnt see a problem with it..

Satoaoi 13

now you can lose yours to someone who isn't a ****

What an inconsiderate downright awful human being.

it means u gave her a hand job or something?