By wiona - 04/04/2014 20:53 - United States - Willimantic
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OP here. I couldn't figure out how to respond without making an account, so I made one in order to reply to a couple of people. First, thanks to all the people who expressed concern. To the people who said YDI, I say screw you, because I did nothing to provoke this asshole. Yeah, I'm underage. I don't look underage, but I definitely am, braces and everything. My mom's boyfriend is yet another guy who's a worthless piece of shit, she has no taste when it comes to men. I talked to her about him after he left and she rolled her eyes and said it was "a joke". Which apparently I didn't get, because I'm "uptight". Moving in with my dad isn't an option, he's on the other side of the country and really can't handle having another person living with him right now. I do miss him, but frankly he's not a whole lot of help, my parents hate each other and while my father means well he's more irresponsible than my mom. I'm hoping my mother will ditch this guy once she gets bored with him, like she has all the other times. This type of boyfriend is nothing new, this is just the first time one of them has gotten somewhat physical with me. Yes, it creeped me out, yes, he's a disgusting human being, and yes, I have a lock on my bedroom door. This is not the first time I've locked myself in my room when my mom has brought home a guy. It's happened before, and will likely keep happening until I move out. Thanks again to the people who expressed sympathy and concern. Just thought you guys ought to have a bit of context.
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Find someone to buy you a stun gun. You can get them on-line. Keep it in your room, lock your door. If he EVER comes in your room . . . . let him have it!! That will slow his ass down!! I also agree to tell someone at school. A counselor probably wouldn't do anything, but the SRO will. At least it will be on record somewhere in case you have any other problems with him. Good luck!
This is disturbing. I don't think actually 'running away like others suggested will help any as the streets can be very dangerous so it's trading one problem for another. Tell a trusted teacher or guidance counsellor, or if you have any other adults you can trust. Also calling the kids help phone if you need too. It is absolutely wrong what he did to you and it is sexual assault (on a minor). Hopefully you can go to a girls home or what's basically called a group home, for your own safety. This should be taken very seriously and tbh if your mom was not somehow sick in the head then she would be thrown that dirty out of your house after he touched you and said the gross comment. I pray you can get out of this situation safely before things get worse.
I'm so sorry you have to deal with that :( No kid should grow up having to lock their bedroom door. Hope you're okay.
He’s a creeper.
Just gonna throw this out there...so if you clicked, "you deserved it" how would you feel if it were you in that situation? Rethink your logic, and maybe your life.
A good mom wouldn’t bring over every Tom, Dick and Harry to the house her teenage daughter lives at knowing what kind of men she attracts. The mom sounds like a worthless piece of shit that goes through guys as often as she changes her underwear. That’s just not something you do if you are a responsible parent. OP needs to talk to her mom and then if she doesn’t change find a family member to live with. Otherwise one of these guys will end up doing something that shouldn’t happen. I am a mom of 2 girls and would never pull that stuff in front of them. Good luck OP
oh my. honey i feel bad for you thats not good :( i hope to god she ditches this asshole fast! if i was in that situation i would have straight up decked dude in the ******* face for touching my daughter in that way. tf everytime hes around you probably feel like hes looking at you or something id just be freaked out lol
I know it's not easy to just escape those situations, especially as a minor. I hope something like that doesn't happen again and I wish you the best of luck getting out of there asap, OP. Don't be afraid to ask for help from anyone you trust or even authorities if it comes down to it. No one should have to deal with that kind of treatment, do your best to be aware and avoid direct contact with that creep. You deserve better, I wish you only the best.
Keeper away from you is what she meant...I wish...
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Run away. Fast
What a C-R-E-E-P.