By Anonymous - 27/07/2016 15:24 - United States - Coshocton

Today, my mom grabbed my phone, said she was taking it because I'd been disrespectful, and hung up my call. I'd been speaking with a work client. This is the gratitude I get for paying all her bills for the past 2 years, all because she's too lazy to get a job. FML
I agree, your life sucks 19 002
You deserved it 1 931

Same thing different taste

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You need to stop enabling your mom. She needs to learn that she can't keep using you as a source, and grow up. She's supposed to be the parent, not you. This path is going to be your life if you don't change it now. Your mom needs to learn the values of life and her lack of responsibility is wrong, especially when she is dependent on her child.

Ginger_Love 19

Well I mean, you could just stop paying the bills until she respects your personal space or she gets a job. Don't be a pushover or she will walk all over you.

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Y is ur mom still taking ur phone. You sound like an adult lmao wut

move out. pay your own bills and let her suffer

Umm, you could just move out and quit complaining. Things would improve for you quickly.

Sounds like my mother. Don't let the fact that she's family, keep you from standing up for yourself. Too many people take advantage of blood ties, to use, and abuse. If she's that toxic, cut her out of yer life. Or at least stop enabling her. Though by doing so, she'd probably escalate things to where severing ties would be the only option.

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4everBroken 13

If you can I say it's time to move out! You pay all the bills than she shouldn't be able to take your phone. YOU make all the money my family has a rule, if you paid for it, it can't be taken away. PERIOD otherwise it's basically stealing because your mom wants to feel powerful because she doesn't wanna get out and work! Shit my mom didn't work but my step dad sure did. Adults need to act like them not when it just comes to making money, even a part time job. But not at all? Barely a parent....

Drop her. Let her take care of herself

you choose to live with her. YDI. you can obviously afford to leave if you're paying all the bills. you're in charge. SHE needs to show the respect.

If your paying for the phone then she can't take it.

Parents that demand respect simply because they are your parents really piss me off... Respect is earned, no matter who you are.