By Anonymous - 27/07/2016 15:24 - United States - Coshocton

Today, my mom grabbed my phone, said she was taking it because I'd been disrespectful, and hung up my call. I'd been speaking with a work client. This is the gratitude I get for paying all her bills for the past 2 years, all because she's too lazy to get a job. FML
I agree, your life sucks 19 002
You deserved it 1 931

Same thing different taste

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You need to stop enabling your mom. She needs to learn that she can't keep using you as a source, and grow up. She's supposed to be the parent, not you. This path is going to be your life if you don't change it now. Your mom needs to learn the values of life and her lack of responsibility is wrong, especially when she is dependent on her child.

Ginger_Love 19

Well I mean, you could just stop paying the bills until she respects your personal space or she gets a job. Don't be a pushover or she will walk all over you.

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Hanny05 8

How is she allowed to take your phone if you pay the bills for it?

Move the **** out. How the hell are you still at home.

Time to move out and let Mommie Dearest take care of herself for once.

Parents are so much work when we grow up aren't they?

Cut her off, **** her, she should be able to support herself.

Move out and tell her good luck without you

I truly don't understand how people let blood and DNA force them to feel obligated. It's not your relation to the individual. It's how they have treated you, and how they continue to treat you. You should never throw so much resource and effort into someone who doesn't appreciate it. You may feel like you're helping your mom, but you are actually hurting her. You're enabling her. Stop doing what you are doing.

TSBoz 5

Mom or not I'd tell her to give you your phone back and get a job or get out.

I'm all for supporting my parents as much as I can after they retire, but not when they're still 50 years old and just lazy. I'd say explain the call was for your job, the job paying for her stuff.