phuk you!!!!!!!!!!!! YDI hard even!!!! its people like you and your 1 inch boyfriend that give us south africans a bad name!!!!!!!!!! i hope your man toy dumps you and gets killed then i hope your baby ruins your life and your parents disown you!!!!!!!!!!!!! you shouldnt have opened your legs!!!!!!!!!!! noe you want to make it your parents problem!!!!!!!!!!!! fail human!!!!!!!!!!! i hate you and i dont even know you!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! and just so you know!!!!! its called a condom!!!!!!!! aaaaaaaaaah im so angry now.... sigh

no where does it say that this girl does not want her baby. Just because she is mildly worried about telling her parents does not mean that its a bad things that she is pregnant. Every time there is an FML along this nature almost everyone is a judgemental ass. The girl is not automatically a **** because she got pregnant, just because she is pregnant does not mean its an accident. i know couples (over 20yrs old btw) who have been scared shitless about telling their parents for no other reason than the fact that pregnancy is a big deal and a bit scary if its your first one. For all you know this woman could be in a loving relationship, living in her own house with both of them working good jobs and maybe..just maybe this baby was planned and wanted, It says a hell of a lot about the sorry state of this world if we see a pregnancy story as a bad thing. Grow the **** up.

Pretty sure having sex doesn't prevent you from getting ready for college, doing your school work, having a job, going places or dating. It's the age when most people are biologically ready for sex and where a lot of people (probably not you) are emotionally ready for it too, so it's a pretty senseless thing to say really. You sound pretty bitter. Maybe if you just keep your mouth shut when you can't think of anything nice or intelligent to say you'd have a better chance of getting laid yourself? Probably not, but still.

Just because shes pregnant doesnt make her a ****. Why is it that if a guy goes and sleeps with ten girls they throw him a party if its a girl shes they call her a ***** WTF. And maybe because the fact she is pregnant which is a HUGE deal, she doesnt know how shes going to tell them since they dont talk to eachother in the first place, so shes probably stressed out not having her mother to talk to about this situation.

any gender shouldn't be having sex PERIOD untill married.

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awwe that rly sucks!..well all i can say is, good luck!

FYL OP, I come from a family that isn't so passive-aggressive about communication so I can't understand how your stepfather/mom are such d-bags, but I feel for you. Oh, and the idiots suggesting abortion need to STFU (pro-choice here but she's worryin' about -how to tell them- she's pregnant, she isn't worrying about BEING pregnant, you fuckwits). **** all the socially retarded idiots who think OP is a *****. You assholes don't know if she's married, 17 or 34, living with her parents or just visiting for the weekend. Grow the hell up and stop acting like making BS assumptions you pulled out of your ass makes you cool. You just look like a dick.

why, was he the one that gave you the birth control pills that you forgot to take?

Last I heard, SOUTH Africa was still a country in Africa. You're an idiot for being a dick about applepineapple31's comment. And yes it's different there. It's different EVERYWHERE. Why is everyone calling her a ***** anyway? A girl can't have sex without being classified as a ***** yet a man can screw anything that breathes and he isn't a *****? We don't even know the OP's age or even if she is married. So she is a ***** for having sex with her possible husband? Don't pass judgment if you don't know the full story.