Precisely.

More like she feels like she is losing her dad. Kids say things they don't mean all the time. There has been times my niece has told me that she would hurt/kill me. It happens it doesn't mean the kid is a spoiled brat.

OP knows her enough to know if she will follow thru on her threats or not. Just because she is 10, doesn't mean she wont hurt the baby. Young kids have been in the news all too often, charged with murder.

OP, just read your profile. In case she does decide to follow through with her threat, set up small cameras around the stairs just to be sure. Nice hat BTW.

As a child of divorce, and a self confessed former-brat I have some thoughts on all your judgement. First of all we don't know how long OP has been married to the child's dad, it could have been years and so she isn't so new, and second, I don't care how old the child is, if I was 12 weeks pregnant and a child phoned me (remember she didn't just say it as a passing comment, she obviously thought about it enough to ring her up and warn her- which is disturbing) to tell me that she would push me down the stairs to stop me having the baby, I wouldn't want her near my family, I would be worried for the safety of my child when it was born. I get being worried about losing attention, but when my father remarried I complained to him, I would never have dreamed of saying anything to my step-mom. I was ignored for a while when my half-brother was born, but it was the same when my full sister was born, it didn't matter that he's only a half sibling, it was only different because I wasn't there all the time. My half-brother is 10 years old now, I absolutely adore him, and my step-mom for that matter and I couldn't imagine him even grasping the concept of purposely pushing someone down the stairs. You all need to step back and think about how you would react if anyone, child or not (especially a child with a potentially poisonous mother trying to win her over like I had) threatens to push you down the stairs or to harm you or your child in anyway. Personally I think 'precisely' was an apt response on behalf of the OP.

As a child of divorce, and a self confessed former-brat I have some thoughts on all this judgement. First of all we don't know how long OP has been married to the child's dad, it could have been years and so she isn't so new, and second, I don't care how old the child is, if I was 12 weeks pregnant and a child phoned me (remember she didn't just say it as a passing comment, she obviously thought about it enough to ring her up and warn her- which is disturbing) to tell me that she would push me down the stairs to stop me having the baby, I wouldn't want her near my family, I would be worried for the safety of my child when it was born. I get being worried about losing attention, but when my father remarried I complained to him, I would never have dreamed of saying anything to my step-mom. I was ignored for a while when my half-brother was born, but it was the same when my full sister was born, it didn't matter that he's only a half sibling, it was only different because I wasn't there all the time. My half-brother is 10 years old now, I absolutely adore him, and my step-mom for that matter and I couldn't imagine him even grasping the concept of purposely pushing someone down the stairs. You all need to step back and think about how you would react if anyone, child or not (especially a child with a potentially poisonous mother trying to win her over like I had) threatens to push you down the stairs or to harm you or your child in anyway. Personally I think 'precisely' was an apt response on behalf of the OP.

And apparently to the retard who thumbed me down, they think threatening the life of an infant is ok.

No