By AFEmoWifey - 09/10/2012 10:21 - United States - Palmyra

Today, my stepdaughter called to say hello and to give me a warning: she will do whatever it takes to keep me from having a baby with her dad, including pushing me down the stairs. I'm 12 weeks pregnant, and we were going to tell her this weekend. I'm now petrified of a 10-year-old. FML
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We bent over backwards to make her comfortable. However, I'm not letting her have a say in my baby making. I'm 23 years older than her so she needs to be more respectful.

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jewfroditmer 7

Push the 10 year old down the stairs? Ok, bad plan.

enormouselephant 15

That is so sad, maybe you can get her some help accepting that relationship? But from now on I'd be extra careful..

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crazy4books23 13

She probably feels that she'll be left alone and forgotten about if she has a sibling. I hope things work out!

beachya 1

My Exs daughter was the same way!!! :/ she never got better and she was a big problem in the relationship. She would throw herself down and say I pushed her. Although sometimes I wanted to I would NEVER. I'm a nanny and if I went around harassing kids I wouldn't have a job... Good luck and stay safe!

You'd better put that little bitch in her place ASAP! I have a 10 year old and there is no way in heaven or hell I'm going to fear a child. You're the adult. She has no business talking to you like that.

U got pushed down the stairs be a 10yr old? Damn dats brutal

Sonotsuave 35

Alright you don't wanna be the evil overbearing stepmother, but seriously? Put her in her PLACE do u wanna be tripped down the stairs and lose the baby because of a ten year old??

Op, Sometimes when you try to give them everything they view it as trying to hard or that you are trying to replace their existing family members. It also potentially sets you up to being taken advantage of in the future. I suggest you have her dad talk to her first ( if she has ill feelings toward you, she won't be receptive to the conversation if you are involved) and then have you and dad talk to her together. Honestly though, it sounds like her mother is involved and that will play a large roll. She may just be trying to please her mom or feel like you are hurting her by being with her dad. She might have also hoped that they would get back together at some point. Who knows, at the end of the day she is just a little girl. It might help if you let her get really involved with the baby (like taking her to ultrasounds and picking out the babies room, stuff like that). Good luck

Sounds like a lifetime movie I saw before, better get out of there!

draw the line & show her who's in charge. don't let a 10 year old control your love life.

Id say bust her ass and I guarantee she wont try that shit after the first time. You're afraid of a 10 year old? Learn to be a damn parent.

My kid wouldn't say shit like that. I can't light my stepdaughter up. Her mom would call the law on me.

Kick the shit out of the step mom too xD then have the dad fix the problem.