By GoFigure - 15/06/2016 13:33 - Germany - Berlin

Today, my wedding is scheduled for next week. Today is also the day my whole family had an epic falling out, resulting in my mother disowning my brother. Apart from having them taking turns sobbing at me through the phone, they're also not coming to the wedding. I paid the hotel rooms in advance. FML
I agree, your life sucks 16 683
You deserved it 1 343

Same thing different taste

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I'm so sorry that this happened. It's your day and you should try to enjoy it with or without them. If they can find it in themselves to handle the situation like mature adults, hopefully they'll both still come to support you.

It's your day, darling. Don't let their childish actions ruin it for you!

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andrmac 25

Have other guests take the room(s) and call and add 2 new people to the wedding itself.

quarterweek 13

Well I guess I could fly out there and take their rooms :)

pharmalady 10

My brother in law got into a big fight with my father and mother in law the day before my wedding. He refused to attend and kept his son with him too. So basically we paid to fly him round-trip and have a hotel room for 2 days for nothing. While it was frustrating, we didn't let it get to us and you should try not to let it get to you either.

We had issues with family as well, but I made it pretty clear that I would have none of that to my wedding. If they didn't come and acted like a grown-up, I would disown THEM. Tell your family to get their shit together and start behaving. If they include YOU in their crap, tell them to stay away. You don't need people that are that petty in your life.

Being disowned was all I had to do to get out of going to my sister's wedding??? Should have posted this FML back in January.

This is why a small or personal private wedding is better than paying so much dang money for a big show

Sounds like they need to grow up. Plus, this day is about you, not them and their petty squabbles. They should be there for you, and at least put their bullshit aside for your day.

I'm so sorry. Don't let it go to waste. Invite friends or other family to enjoy the room. Hope everything turns out alright