By ameremanapparently - 26/03/2016 12:27 - United States - Carlisle

Today, someone told my girlfriend that I cheated on her. I've never cheated in my life. Instead of talking to me about it, she made a big post on Facebook about what a dick I am. Pretty much all the comments went along the lines of "What a bastard." and "Ugh, men are pigs." FML
I agree, your life sucks 25 101
You deserved it 2 023

Same thing different taste

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If she doesn't believe you, she's not worth it.

She obviously doesn't deserve you then.

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I always hated that saying (Men are pigs), there are loyal guys out there you know, including OP.

Not to mention, a lot of women who also cheat or engage in the same behaviors that get men labeled as pigs.

People are so naive and stupid. They believe anything people tell them.

I hate women with ideas to always play the victim card. It ruins many relations from jealous lies and makes nice guys look bad

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ourtneyc 14

it's gonna be a hard hole to dig yourself out of but I hope you can clear up the situation. She really doesn't deserve you if she won't even try and talk it out with you though. Sorry OP

Perhaps she's been cheated on in the past and had a "war flashback" style meltdown, but it doesn't excuse her reaction. She should've spoken to you about it. I'm sorry you're going through that. It's up to you to decide if the relationship is worth salvaging, but I feel you should end things now, don't even try to clear your name. If she wants to continue assuming you cheated, that's on her, but you shouldn't have to spend the rest of the relationship walking on eggshells so you don't set her off again.

Axel5238 29

Had an ex that did this because she didn't understand my job was about 45 min-an hour from were I used to live and thought everything was a sign scratches on my back from trying to squeeze through pallets left by we hang our coats and other things She flipped she almost slammed my arm in the door and didn't care. She threatened to bring someone to my place to sleep with them

I'm with you #24. A lot of people think that if they are the one pointing the finger, then nobodies probably looking at them

With people like this you spend your entire relationship on eggshells. Trust me.

Most of the time the person that cheats deals with the guilt by accusing the person they cheated on..

A good partner would've believe you

Sounds like something a teenager would do and/or someone who's been waiting for such an opportunity. Have her eat a bag of livers

Agreed. I've had friends who did similar things; they would pretend everything was fine and then proceed to blow up about the smallest of issues and then never speak to me again over it. In my experience, it isn't worth getting upset over. If they were willing to be sneaky about it instead of talking things out, they aren't worth the emotion or time.