Why can't you just say my husband/boyfriend

Marriage solves a lot a problems (for the little bastard :).

Get the babies shipped priority next time

No he won't. He is the dad and he will sadly be able to stay her thanks to the Obama administration ??

Maybe you shouldn't have gotten pregnant trying to have anchor babies n shit.

Marry him. Then he will be able to stay

Hey OP here. I guess I should clarify some things. Birth control was used, as like every other time. It happened to fail. We were together a few months and a few more after we found out. I don't believe in staying with someone solely because of a child. It's not healthy for anyone. We get along fine and he's excited to be a dad. Absolutely not great timing of course. But I do not believe in abortion. I didn't post this because I'm worried about money. I have a good full time job that I will return to after my mat leave. My heart hurts for him, not me. I've got my family here, I'll be ok. Thank you for the support!!

Just get married to him then he can stay and once he is all sorted out then you could get a divorce. I mean it's not like its a complete stranger you will be doing this for its your childs father he will be in your life no matter what so might as well do that for your kid to have a father in its life instead of foreign country

Reason #36393 it's a bad idea to have sex with anyone you wouldn't want to have a baby with.

Think about having a family together nonetheless, magical things happen and love and family are far more important than countries and money