Unless you're in your 30s I don't see the problem. Have fun and enjoy life. There are some people who never got to enjoy their young years because they had to take care of a kid since they were a teenager.

Don't feel too badly OP. After I miscarried in May, everyone and their sisters have been announcing pregnancies at least once a month. :/ Happy for them but still bitter and sad for myself and my husband.

it's not fun being pregnant trust me

Get rid of the cats and get out of the house, go to a store, and out for drinks with some friends. Cats can be a warning sign for guys if you have more than one. Third find a guy to be with, don't just be a breeder and pop out kids to every new guy that come along.

Think of it like this, at least you don't have to hear screaming children everyday or question how that pile of shit came out of such a small person. And best of all, you get to experience the joy of sleeping in.

Take your time OP. Just not too much

Irresponsibility isn't attractive....

what if I told you that having kids is optional? I know I know. You lay in bed at night and go 'why...am i sleeping so well right now?'. Seriously though, enjoy it. You're free from the burden of children. stop sulking about such a gift and go celebrate your glorious freedom.

Cats being pregnant is normal. Thats why the vet and shelter suggest, if not forces you, to fix your cat. Even the male one so they cant fertilize another cat. If you dont fix your cat for five years you could end up with 80,000 cats. ?

Who cares? Now you have kittens.