OP if your girlfriend really loves you she should be able to accept you with or without the "flab" , its not your fault it's just who you are. (Suggestion: If she doesn't want to see your "flab" maybe try different positions? "Doggie Style" , "Reverse Cowgirl" ?)

youre right, people are never capable of starting to have sex and then later not being able to continue because theyre disgusted or feel that its just wrong. thats why theres never any rape lawsuits regarding people who change their mind during doing something. how ridiculous. you have an opinion, good for you. i also have one, and that is that she found him to be repulsive (her reasons are her own) and tried to do something to make him happy but just found it got to her too much. i really doubt this one sided story is going to give an unbiased review of the scenario and personally, i see nothing wrong here. it is an fml moment but it doesnt make her a bitch, regardless of your opinion.

that's called motivation

Lmao. Your comments crack me up.

well, at least take comfort in the fact that she's not getting any either. oh, wait, she's probably getting some on the side, nvm lol XD

Since she thinks using sex as a way to manipulate you is acceptable, you should feel free to find something irritating about her (which shouldn't be hard) and tell her that until she changes that characteristic, you will be putting it in her butt.

hen start losing more of that weight, it isn't hard.

You should just break up with a bitch liek that. She's obviously really superficial. What would happen if you got in a car accident and gained wait after lying in a cast for a few months? Would she just break up with you? If it really bothered her, she would have stopped it before it happened. Any sort of "flab" that can be gained so slowly that she doesn't notice it until she's feeling critical is probably not real flab. You probably have a tiny bit of weight on your stomach. I dated someone who was manipulative in the same way. Trust me. Someone like this is never happy with you no matter how much you change for them. This is not "motivation" this is taking advantage of someone emotionally. Being physically perfect is a nice ideal but trust me, it's far more important to be emotionally compatible with the person you're with. For example, this emotionally abusive bitch should be with a physically abusive guy.

i agree with 149, shes tried to have sex with him but thinks hes gross and was forced to stop in the middle, in light of which she thought it appropriate to tell him how bad he looked (someones got to) without sugar coating anything. itd be doing him a disservice not to tell him and telling him she wont do him until hes lost some weight gives him an incentive. so now lets all exercise our rights to an opinion without expecting everyone to agree with us and it should all be fine. that means you rawr9able (wtf does that even mean anyway?). also its "would have" not "would of".

Why should she have sex with your nasty fatness all over the place?