I bet what happened is he mixed up the names. He probably was referring to your sister. Mixing up a name is more likely than not realizing who your talking to.

Don't worry. I'm sure he was just confused, because the alcohol was clouding his mind. I'm sure that you are a very helpful person, and that he was referring to your sister, or some random girl at the bar who wouldn't help him, even. Just disregard the comment, and get on with your life! Use those words to make yourself a better person, and talk with him about it when he is sober.

Am I the only one who is kind of hoping that there is no sister, just Vanessa?

well maybe your dad wouldnt think so badly of you if you stopped leaking photos of yourself nude over the internet. send them to zac not us. lol jk but fyl

So what, he just got your name wrong. My parents do that when they're totally sober.

He's drunk. All he's saying is babble. He doesn't know or mean what he's saying,

well, true feelings come out when drunk. jk. don't worrk about it. he's shitfaced drunk, he doesn't know what he's saying.

I'm sorry sweetie. I have been there. hugs.

My dad is an alcoholic, and always says things like that.. and worse. Just don't listen to him, he's a jerk!

Next time he comes home drunk, wait for him to pass out then go get a black marker and get creative on his face. Better still, duct tape him to the sofa and wheel the sofa down the road a few blocks.