By guitarki - 26/04/2015 18:49 - United States - Monroe

Today, while with a large group of friends, my best friend started talking about my struggles with dating and intimacy. I quietly asked her to stop talking about it, as it was personal and I wasn't comfortable with everyone else knowing. Her response? "Um, it's really none of your business." FML
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Hey, OP here. I made an account so that I could comment. When it happened, there was nothing I could say to her to make her stop. I asked her several times to please stop talking about it, and I was so embarrassed, but she wouldn't listen to me. I ended up just getting my stuff together and leaving. I'm not very close to the people in the group, so I felt uncomfortable with being so exposed to them. I talked to her afterwards in private and told her that it was really uncool of her to keep talking about it when I asked her to stop. She claimed that she didn't think it was that big of a deal, since when I told her at the time, I didn't say that it was meant to be a secret. I guess I just never thought to let her know that I didn't want her to blab to everyone about my personal issues. She also made sure to clarify to me that when she said it wasn't any of my business, she meant that it was not my conversation to butt into, even though I was literally right beside her. This incident made me realize that she really isn't a very good friend to me. She has never acted this way until recently, so I never thought to avoid telling her things. I do know that I'll definitely not be confiding in her anymore though.

Top comments

I'd reconsider calling her your 'best' friend

Quite the friend you have there OP. Surely hope you put her in her place and took up for yourself since she obviously has no respect for you! Definitely don't trust her anymore...

Comments

alex101676 8

your best friend is a bitch

HeyImAmy 20

I feel you OP. I had a friend who was at my house. My iPod Touch was on the table in my family room. My iPod made that ding that the facebook messenger app makes when you get a new message and she wanted to know who messaged me. I wouldn't tell her so she tried to grab my iPod off the table but I beat her too it and told her that it's not okay for her to snoop in my stuff. I went upstairs to do something and she messaged a mutual friend (from her iPhone) to complain because I was being a jerk and not letting her snoop. Our mutual friend then messaged me and I told her the real story and she believed me. The mutual friend and I are no longer friends with the girl who tried to snoop because she constantly lied to us and treated us like shit.

ObsidianMoon17 12

I guess she's talking to herself then..

Time to kick that friendship to the curb. Sorry OP sometimes so called friends are disguised as "friends" but can actually be your greatest enemy. She doesn't understand the concept of privacy.

It's not her fault she picked a bitch as a friend, not everyone shows their true colors at first.

Was she any of the following: 1- pinbrained 2- blonde 3- drunk 4- bimbo

Tell her that you're not Kermit, for it IS your business, and that she's the real muppet.

Not much of a friend I would say....

mahaliah17 9

and she's supposed to be your best friend? ....