By guitarki - 26/04/2015 18:49 - United States - Monroe
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Hey, OP here. I made an account so that I could comment. When it happened, there was nothing I could say to her to make her stop. I asked her several times to please stop talking about it, and I was so embarrassed, but she wouldn't listen to me. I ended up just getting my stuff together and leaving. I'm not very close to the people in the group, so I felt uncomfortable with being so exposed to them. I talked to her afterwards in private and told her that it was really uncool of her to keep talking about it when I asked her to stop. She claimed that she didn't think it was that big of a deal, since when I told her at the time, I didn't say that it was meant to be a secret. I guess I just never thought to let her know that I didn't want her to blab to everyone about my personal issues. She also made sure to clarify to me that when she said it wasn't any of my business, she meant that it was not my conversation to butt into, even though I was literally right beside her. This incident made me realize that she really isn't a very good friend to me. She has never acted this way until recently, so I never thought to avoid telling her things. I do know that I'll definitely not be confiding in her anymore though.
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wth in need of an actual best friend op hope you told her off
"'best' friend"
tbh im in your situation but i stopped caring cuz ita non of my business either XD
Instead of "best friend" that should read "ex-friend."
Hey op. I read your comment about how she claimed that it wasn't your convo to butt in on. She was talking about you so you had every right to butt in. Even if you didn't tell her to keep it a secret, she should have had some respect for you as a friend and not say anything. Sorry that happened to you and glad you no longer confide in someone like her. Keep your head up and keep moving on. Life is too short to waste on people like her.
Ok, get rid of that "friend" now! Life is too short to be surrounded by shitty people. It's not ok to talk about someone's personal problems, especially if you were asked them to. This person probably has nothing going on in their lives and that's why they talk about yours. Good luck and get rid of them.
hope slapped her.
well your life isnt your buisness (sarcasm)
Time for a new best friend
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I'd reconsider calling her your 'best' friend
Quite the friend you have there OP. Surely hope you put her in her place and took up for yourself since she obviously has no respect for you! Definitely don't trust her anymore...