I'm terribly sorry for your ex boyfriend's poor decision!

Been there. Trust me, you're better off not spending your life cleaning up after someone who makes destructive life choices on impulse instead of desiring long-term investments and relationships. Now is your chance to find someone who adds value to your future.

You're a rare gem and deserve better. A good man will appreciate and adore you.

You know how people don't know what they have till they lose it? Give it a few weeks... Just don't be too available to him, OK?

Way to go! You watch too much TV and live in a fantasy world. You make the man feel guilty of his failures instead of worthy of your support and you make him keenly aware of all the things you’ve done for him in a self congratulatory fashion, and you wonder why he would choose the emotional support of the new girl? Interesting. Having said that, he’s still an arsehole for not pulling his weight and helping with cooking and cleaning etc. Lazy bastard.

if you look on the bright side, two years is a drop in the bucket of your life. focus on yourself for now. when you're happy with yourself, the right man that appreciates you will come along.

Now go and find someone who will appreciate you.

that's how ultimatums end. You chose to be there for him yet you also decide to keep score? consider that