Can't stop, won't stop
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NO ONE deserves this! OP, get to Al-Anon (12 step support for families of alcoholics/addicts). Hopefully the wife is willing to go to AA. If not, at least OP can get support on how to help him & his daughter. This is a FAMILY disease people. I know this FML....however, personally I am offended by the insensitivity of some of the comments.
wtf is wrong with you? maybe she will change, and maybe she won't. but even if she doesn;t one does not toss someone they love to the curb because they are flawed. Love is about acceptance, what you give, not what you get.
Yup. Alanon for you
Alcoholics can change...if they want to change. There are a lot of people who choose to stop drinking because of how it affects their lives, and plenty are successful. The OPs wife has to truely want to change in order for her to be able to change.
Give her one more chance. If nothing works, then it's hasta la vista baby.
alcoholics can misunderstand u very easily.. so be gentle n patient to her.. if she depends on you!
Beer with me here. She didn't want to hear you Wine about her drinking. You need to sit down with her in the living Rum or den, send the child away with a butterScotch, and have a talk with her. If she won't talk, shake it (don't stir) up a little, take her out on a romantic walk through the woods, sit down with her On The Rocks, and talk there (don't start by talking about that though, ease into that conversation). Just try not to be in too PUBlic of a place when you do. And if that doesn't help, don't be afraid to have her saying "Hello. My name is Brandy, and I'm an alcoholic."
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Using a five year old as a scapegoat, that's pretty low.
Recovering alcoholics have been known to relapse several times. Be supportive. She's going to need your help to keep her back on track.