If you can't be honest with him about what it takes, he'll never give you one.

"You don't have the heart" is an excuse. Stop being such a little bitch and tell him straight up. Tell him NOW as opposed to LATER because it will hurt him FAR LESS. The most important thing in any relationship is communication and honesty, two things which you are not allowing by lying to him through omission. He won't mind in the long run as long as you show him how to help you achieve ******. You have a ********, he should know what to do with it. If he doesn't, SHOW HIM. It's really that simple.

I bet a girl can make you finish

...And women wonder why they remain unsatisfied... Won't shut the **** up about feelings, money, kids, friends, cleanliness, driving, things that aren't their business, etc., but when there's vital information to be exchanged? Not a peep. SUCK ON IT.

And there is your problem right there. He doesn't know. YDI.

women take longer than men to get off, its a scientific fact. the man I'm with now has been the first person to get me off, with me coaching. communication is key to ******, along with complete relaxation. you have to be comfortable to come. the more you try to force yourself to cum, the longer it will take. **** is not real life. we do not cum that fast. i wish we did, but we don't.

YDI. its your own fault for not telling him what you like. He obviously doesn't know what you like

be more dramatic

I don't see why it's such a big deal in the first place though, this seems to be very common.

Sometimes it's hard to talk about, but if you want satisfaction in your sex life with your boyfriend, it's important to talk to him. He asked about it, so he cares; it seems like he wants to better please you. All you have to do is tell him what feels good! Happy sexing!