Communication breakdown

By Jen - 20/03/2012 05:11 - United States - Woodland Hills

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Today, my new boyfriend asked why it takes me so long to reach orgasm. I didn't have the heart to tell him that he's never even given me one. FML
I agree, your life sucks 34 985
You deserved it 7 313

Same thing different taste

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dgmesa 4

quit leaving it up 2 him....only u know what u like so tell him what he needs 2 do

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If you are not going to tell him, how is he to improve, unless you are happy to still have no orgasms in future sexual encounters with your bf. There is nothing wrong with giving some direction and informing the guy into what works for you.

Yourheadache 19

thats a shame that you are telling us all that about him, when you are the one losing, because your "new" boyfriend reach his climax, and you dont, i love ****** and my "new" boyfriend does what i like so win win.

kay_princess14 7

Damn that's a lot of work to be faking

YDI - if you don't stop faking it he is never going to get better.

zanitos 5

sounds like u need another "new" boyfriend

Communication, moron. You TALK about those things, sex is a two-player COOP. You TELL your partner about likes and dislikes and where to go and what to do, SHARE the experience instead of whining about how your partner has never given you an ******. This kind of thing infuriates me, how can people be so thick that they expect their partner to magically get them to climax. Grow the **** up.

MissHayleyJames 7

...because in some cases your partner can magically make you climax. I'd never had an ****** before I met my husband. He didn't do anything special to make it happen and it just did. In the 4 years we've been together I've had at least 2 or more orgasms about 99% of the time. I've never not had one with him. Sometimes it is "magic".

Your just setting yourself up for ****** free sex...just tell him what he can do to improve both of your guy's sex life! It'll pay off in the end!

ROTFLOL.!!!!!!!!!!!! I feel ya )= lol.!!!!

You get boyfriends just to have sex with them not even that long into the relationship? You did say new bf.

For the sake of all his future girlfriends it is your responsibility to tell him that he sucks at the seks