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By foreveralone - 17/02/2015 15:48 - United States - Sherman

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You cannot rely on someone who only hooks up when drunk. Trust me. Be careful, sweetheart.
Ya, he's not worth a second of time. Eat some ice cream, than forget it and find someone who is actually proud to be called yours. You are worth it!
She said she has had a crush on him for a long time. I was talking about her moving on from that.
It just annoys me because people hide their feelings for people. I don't understand it. Then one way or another things get messy. This guy and I slept with each other a few times. Then we decided to just be friends. Last week after months and months and months of being completely platonic (even going on a trip overseas for a couple weeks) - he confessed his love to me. I politely told him that I didn't feel the same, and he completely freaked out and caused a scene in the restaurant. He said I was leading him on and toying with his emotions - that I was just using him for sex or whatever. Idk. I see people who get upset at people all the time because they simply don't feel the same. Just move on.
Love the double standard here. She's as guilty as he is, except she had expectations of something he didn't know about. It's OP's fault. If she had told him before drunk sex, I bet it wouldn't have happened. OP deserves it.
You need to lower down your expectations and YDI
and you really thought he would be like "hey, lets date now" its called one night stand for a reason both were drunk cant really expect a happily ever after end
It's only called a one night stand if you didn't know the person before which was obviously not the case here (OP couldn't have had a crush for him for a while if she just got to know him). But I agree with the last part you said, you cannot expect someone you hooked up with drunk to fall in love with you even though it sometimes happens which OP naturally hoped for.
I don't think a drunken hookup is a good way to start a relationship with anyone, to be frank. Sorry, OP.
It depends, sometimes a drunk hook-up can turn into something serious. I met my (now ex-) boyfriend when I was drunk and we made out, the next day we had our first "normal" date. Some days later we were together and it lasted for almost two years. But I agree with most people here that you shouldn't expect somebody to be in love with you just because you hooked up drunk.
Oh I can already hear the wedding bells!
Well you were drunk soooo Yep
Does it bother anyone else that OP didn't close her quotation marks?...
Erm... I mean... you guys WERE drunk... what did you expect?
I've had my share of drunken hookups. And let me tell you OP, sober hookups are way better since you're both in your normal state of mind and everything else that happens when not drunk has 100% consent in it. I'm sure you'll learn from this experience and move on to find a gentleman who likes you and not just wants to sleep with you.
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Your drunken hookup didn't turn into a fairytale ending? Huh.
Well you did drunkenly hook up so what did you expect was going to happen?