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By foreveralone - 17/02/2015 15:48 - United States - Sherman

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Today, I was talking to my best friend's brother after we drunkenly hooked up last night. I've had a crush on him for over a year. He ended up interrupting himself and said, "Please don't tell anyone about this. I don't want anyone to think we're dating or anything." FML
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WCARlover 34

Your drunken hookup didn't turn into a fairytale ending? Huh.

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Pink185054 16

Well you did drunkenly hook up so what did you expect was going to happen?

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Araj_Hs 19

You cannot rely on someone who only hooks up when drunk. Trust me. Be careful, sweetheart.

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makkarari 18

Ya, he's not worth a second of time. Eat some ice cream, than forget it and find someone who is actually proud to be called yours. You are worth it!

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JustinJK 21

He didn't do anything wrong. They drunkenly hooked up. Why hasn't she told him about her feelings? Why would she impulsively hookup with him if she wants more? it takes two to tango.

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makkarari 18

She said she has had a crush on him for a long time. I was talking about her moving on from that.

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JustinJK 21

It just annoys me because people hide their feelings for people. I don't understand it. Then one way or another things get messy. This guy and I slept with each other a few times. Then we decided to just be friends. Last week after months and months and months of being completely platonic (even going on a trip overseas for a couple weeks) - he confessed his love to me. I politely told him that I didn't feel the same, and he completely freaked out and caused a scene in the restaurant. He said I was leading him on and toying with his emotions - that I was just using him for sex or whatever. Idk. I see people who get upset at people all the time because they simply don't feel the same. Just move on.

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elusiveshame 22

Love the double standard here. She's as guilty as he is, except she had expectations of something he didn't know about. It's OP's fault. If she had told him before drunk sex, I bet it wouldn't have happened. OP deserves it.

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tranced_ 45

You need to lower down your expectations and YDI

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Yuyita_fml 3

and you really thought he would be like "hey, lets date now" its called one night stand for a reason both were drunk cant really expect a happily ever after end

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VeganDarkLight 31

It's only called a one night stand if you didn't know the person before which was obviously not the case here (OP couldn't have had a crush for him for a while if she just got to know him). But I agree with the last part you said, you cannot expect someone you hooked up with drunk to fall in love with you even though it sometimes happens which OP naturally hoped for.

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countryb_cth 38

You can still call it a one night stand even if you know the person. Mostly because a one night stand is when you have sex with someone just once so you still could call it that.

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Likian5 26

I don't think a drunken hookup is a good way to start a relationship with anyone, to be frank. Sorry, OP.

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VeganDarkLight 31

It depends, sometimes a drunk hook-up can turn into something serious. I met my (now ex-) boyfriend when I was drunk and we made out, the next day we had our first "normal" date. Some days later we were together and it lasted for almost two years. But I agree with most people here that you shouldn't expect somebody to be in love with you just because you hooked up drunk.

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WasabiMars 21

#23 And don't forget about the doves. Anyway I don't know who downvoted you but they're obviously as good as you when it comes to sarcasm.

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Meettitan 14

Does it bother anyone else that OP didn't close her quotation marks?...

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zykrithium 22

Erm... I mean... you guys WERE drunk... what did you expect?

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WasabiMars 21

I've had my share of drunken hookups. And let me tell you OP, sober hookups are way better since you're both in your normal state of mind and everything else that happens when not drunk has 100% consent in it. I'm sure you'll learn from this experience and move on to find a gentleman who likes you and not just wants to sleep with you.

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