Dude, step up your game

By happycow122 - 20/06/2015 20:54 - United States - Lafayette

Today, I realized I'm pregnant by a man who won't even accept my Facebook friend request. FML
I agree, your life sucks 25 105
You deserved it 20 420

Same thing different taste

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It's a sad world when Facebook relationships are more important than real life ones.

MdMan2 23

Is Facebook really that important? That you base him on the fact that he won't accept your Facebook request?

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I'm wondering if he won't accept your request because he has a girlfriend or wife.

Queen_of_Night 20

There are a lot of assumptions being made in the comments. OP never said this was a one night stand, they could be in a relationship. While Facebook isn't that important in the grand scheme of things, it is a type of communication and obviously he doesn't want OP knowing what he's doing on there. OP may find out she's one of many relationships.

Sathane 21

Quick! Accuse him of rape to hide your shame.

Wow, aren't you the scum of the Earth.

48- Totally agree with you. Regardless of whether they were being serious, that was a horrible comment.

Curious as to what the comment was...

It was something along the lines of "Quick! Accuse him of rape to get yourself out of this mess". Either they were being serious, in which case they're clearly an absolute moron, or they were joking, in which case they were trivialising the experiences of people who speak up about being raped.

Wow, so you slept with someone and didn't even know them well enough for them to accept you on Facebook????

CaitiieBuggs 23

You don't know how well OP may or may not know this dude. My husband and I were best friends for two years before starting a romantic relationship. He didn't accept my friend request until a year into dating, simply because he never logged into his account. We definitely knew each other very well. We don't know the circumstances of this post. There may be a lot of backstory or very little. It's all assumptions right now, until OP makes a follow up (if she does).

an3ph 20

You didn't see this coming?

Maybe he's not into Facebook heck my fiancé and father of my two children isn't it doesn't mean that he won't be a good father just because you're not connected.

I bet he has to respond to court requests for child support when baby comes out.

I think that OP added the Facebook part to show that her baby daddy doesn't want to have any sort of relationship with her

I think a friend request on Facebook is the least of your worries

Maybe you shouldn't try to get into relationships after one night stands. YDI

When did she say it was one night stand?

That doesn't make any sense. Like it or not, plenty of relationships have begun with casual sex. I have been in a great relationship for the last five years that started that way.