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By Anonymous - This FML is from back in 2016 but it's good stuff - United States - Colorado Springs

Today, my religious mother found out I work at Planned Parenthood. Now everytime she sees me, she prays until I leave the room. FML
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I hate that passive aggressive shit.

pleasedie 22

While that may suck for you, I couldn't help but chuckle a little at the thought of someone doing that. Honestly if I were you I'd do little things to mess with her like leave pamphlet and other things around since she wants to be petty

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Follow her around whenever possible. Once she realizes she can't get anything done when she is praying for hours while you sit around reading a book, she'll likely stop. When you've gotten her THAT far, she might be more open to a talk.

God I am so tired of people associating planned parenthood with abortion. They do very few abortions. Most of what they do entails helping women have healthy reproductive systems.

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nightingale21 7

Any doctor does that. I had a kid and had separate bills for the birth, the nursery, the epidural and the stay

Perhaps if the "religious" people attacking planned parenthood intended to support the babies they want women to be forced to carry, they might have some small thread of moral legitimacy.

Wait until Sunday and just follow her around the whole day. Take a book and just subtly move to where she is the whole time. She's bound to give up eventually and if she challenges you can just claim ignorance - "Sorry, I just thought that praying was what you did on a Sunday"!

YDI OP because you knew it would happen when she found out.

#20: How would they know the mother wouldn't accept it?

So what are you trying to say? With your stance, the OP really has only 2 options. Either she shouldn't work at planned parenthood, or she should hide or lie about that part of her life to her mother? Neither of these is fair to the OP, who shouldn't have to compromise herself and change her life just because her mothers is a judgmental fanatic. You're blaming the OP instead of holding the mother accountable, the person who is actually in the wrong in this situation. Her daughter's job is not hurting her in any way, so she should stop it with the rituals and overreacting, she doesn't have to like what her daughter does, but she does have to accept it.

You're completely right besides its not like it's OP who conducts the abortions, but it could be more then the abortions that OP's mother has an issue with; some religions are against contraception also. so it could be that too.

Honestly, it's just time to cut ties with this woman. I realize she's your mother, but this level of blind hatred and religious bigotry never improves, she's always going to be this way. Save yourself years of pain and walk away.

She is planning to maintain that parenthood by praying..

cootiequeen4444 11

a question mark at the end of your sentence would have created a better result than ellipses/sarcasm. Though this is me giving you the benefit of the doubt you weren't being literal. Not that being literal would have made much sense..

ericanicole1 12

I hate when people want to preach pro life. Like you're literally only pro the life of a fertilized egg, not the already existing life of the woman effected by it all. For some reason the people who are actually here now don't matter, regardless of their life situation

Or the life of the child after it's born. George Carlin once had the best rant ever about the folks who call themselves pro-life, and it boils down to them caring about that life between conception and birth. I like to say the "pro-life" tend to be like girls who dream of the perfect wedding day without giving a thought to the marriage; they gush over the embryo/fetus without giving thought to the eventual baby who need food, clothing, a home, medical care, and an education.

Actually adoption is very prevalent among pro-life people. For example, the pastor at my parents' church, who is very pro-life, has adopted all three of his children. And I've heard so many pro-choice people argue in favor of abortion because people born into poverty or with disabilities will inevitably become burdens to society. That's not exactly a celebration of life after birth, is it?

Yes, well, until there are no more kids aging out of the foster care system without a family, I'd rather not hear "adoption, not abortion". And perhaps they should also be okay with same-sex couples adopting too. I have a cousin who does foster children and has even adopted children; fair to say she walks the walk. But a lot of them don't. As for ending the pregnancy of a fetus who will be disabled, perhaps a couple doesn't have the financial, physical, and emotional resources to deal with a special needs child.

In my experience they are the same people who are usually for the Death Penalty as well. Not to mention, if they were truly "pro-life" they would discourage men from masturbating and releasing and killing potential children. It's not like the mothers can get pregnant on their own. They do need the sperm to fertilize the egg, If they want to persecute women and doctors for abortions, they need to persecute men who ********** as well.

And somewhere on a cloud, God is so sick of hearing from your mother.

KinglyBee 3

Thank you for working the job you do. I know first hand the good planned parenthood does and if it wasn't for this organization helping me through issues I had with allergies and other genetic problems with my reproductive system, I never would have been able to be in the steady, loving relationship I am in today. My father in law is the same way. Keep your chin up and remember the good you're doing!