Love, Grieving, Death and Awkward: Gentle

Gentle

By Ash_The_Unicorn - 20/08/2020 14:05

Today, after losing my father a little over 6 months ago, and finally feeling comfortable talking to my fiancé (who lives with me and my family) about it, my mother forced her way into the room and started yelling at me for crying. Her excuse, "It’s after your bedtime." I’m 20. FML

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By crazycutie1027 - 14/02/2009 04:43 - United States

Today, I was crying after having argued with my boyfriend. My mom saw me, she asked, "Why are you crying? Don't you have homework to do?" FML

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Empathy lives

By Natasha9 - 22/05/2021 20:01

Today, my mom walked in on me crying in my room and yelled at me for being a "weak little crybaby." I’d just found out my best friend died in a car accident. When I told my mom that, she said, "Does it look like I fucking care?" FML

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WTF mom?

By whowhat - 11/07/2013 06:26 - United States

Today, I came home at 1 am to find my mom sitting on my couch, ranting about how I'm not supposed to stay up this late. I'm 26 and I don't know how she got into my house. FML

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By Anonymous - 10/05/2013 19:28 - United States - Warren

Today, my mother and I got into an argument, and she told me to go to my room. I refused, prompting her to slap the shit out of me. I'm 29, and she was visiting me at my own house. FML

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Boozehound

By fuck you mom - 17/04/2020 20:00

Today, my mom laid into me, calling me a selfish bitch, blaming me for my dad not being around and finally that she should’ve aborted me. All because I couldn't get her booze from the neighborhood market she’s been banned from. I’m not even 21. FML

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Love is blind

By Anonymous - 27/09/2021 05:02

Today, my mom disowned me and forced me to move out because I didn’t have a crying heartbroken meltdown at the death of my stepfather. She knows I hated the man's guts since the first time he slapped her, so my not caring about his death shouldn't have surprised her. FML

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Drama farmers

By Anonymous - 12/03/2024 06:00 - United States - Dallas

Today, my dad lectured me because my mom cried herself to sleep last night. Why? Because I didn't want to watch a movie with her. I had to go to sleep to be up for work at 6 a.m., and was too tired to watch a movie in the first place. I live with drama queens. FML

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By mammasboy - 21/05/2013 18:30 - United States - Springfield

Today, my mom scolded me and threatened to ground me for coming home past midnight. Normally, it wouldn't be unreasonable, except for the fact that I'm 24 years-old, and that my parents live with me, in my own house. FML

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Priorities

By unknown - 26/04/2021 21:30

Today, I was feeling depressed. I overheard my mom crying on the phone. She said, “If my daughter kills herself, who’s going to do the dishes?” FML

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What's it to you?

By Anonymous - 29/04/2023 06:00

Today, my mother casually told me she’s been seeing someone for the past 3 months. My dad passed away 2 years ago. They were together for 40 years. Suddenly she had to get off the phone with me because her “guy she’s been talking to” was calling. Hence I’m on the wine. FML

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RichardPencil 30

Thursday 20 August 2020 15:27

Wait, what am I seeing here? It took you six months to get comfortable enough to talk to your fiancé about losing your dad? This does not sound good.

Chazzster 28

Thursday 20 August 2020 15:47

While OP’s mom was acting stupid and insensitive, she also lost a husband 6 months ago. It’s possible she has not fully processed her grief and was reacting the way she did because of that. Sometimes otherwise good people say and do stupid and insensitive things.

Comments

-Silverfox- 10

Thursday 20 August 2020 14:59

Oh, wow. Shame on you for crying after bedtime. 🤦🏻‍♀️

RichardPencil 30

Thursday 20 August 2020 15:27

Wait, what am I seeing here? It took you six months to get comfortable enough to talk to your fiancé about losing your dad? This does not sound good.

Chazzster 28

Thursday 20 August 2020 15:47

AmbrosiaFan 18

Thursday 20 August 2020 17:39

I find it odd that someone you are engaged to, you wait till then to talk to him about it..

Jonkbaby 22

Friday 21 August 2020 13:44

I lost my Dad this year as well. it is tough, there is no timeline to grief, and sometimes others just arent ready to deal with certain parts of it. i bought cardboard cutouts for a baseball team's stands of me and my parents from a game last year, and I was happy about it, but my Mom wasn't ready to see that