Get better standards

By Anonymous - 25/07/2023 10:00

Today, I realized just how bitchy my BFF really is. When my sister said hi to her, she just glared back. She refers to a trans woman as "it" and not her correct pronouns. She just sucks the fun out of everything and makes me feel alone and stuck. I can't abandon her though because we're both each other's only friend. FML
I agree, your life sucks 295
You deserved it 1 115

Same thing different taste

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Doom_Kitty 12

You're actually not doing her a favour by supporting the exact reason why she doesn't have any other friends.

Zero friends is better than having one shitty one. Once you dump this shit, you can have time to meet others. Try to pick better this time.

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Maybe you don’t have any friends (besides her) because of the way she acts, or possibly those traits are rubbing off on you. Move on.

she's the exact reason you have no other friends. drop her like the bad habit she is and you will make more. she's pushing people away from you and making you miserable which is even less approachable

That's a dumb reason to stay in an obviously toxic relationship. Make new friends, then. It's not hard. This coming from a total social introvert who has a lot of friends.

You're better off alone than with friends like that

ElizibethRose 4

if you leave the friendship you may find that you will make new ones more valuable

is that the only reason you don’t wanna be friends with her? I’ve had much worse friends than that.