It must hurt when you waste 4 years of your life with a girl who does not want to marry you. She's either crazy or superstitious, or both, crazy superstitious or superstitiously crazy. Either one, I empathize you. Good luck on finding another.

She sounds a little weird... I'd cut her loose... if she is going to throw away a future with you because of a sneeze, then she is not worth it.

in sickness and health? Naw man scratch that first one

I don't know if this is gonna be any comfort for you OP but it looks like she wasn't gonna say yes and leave anyway and this was a cheap excuse to dump you. Either that or she truly believes that a sneeze should determine her fate and in that case, you saved yourself a lot of troubles in the future (imagine taking all your life big decisions like having kids, getting house, etc with someone who can be swayed so easily by something that trivial). 4 years is a long time, especially if you were planning to spend your life with her. I feel your pain. Hope you'll get over it soon enough.

Well a marriage with someone that puts such emphasis in the most random and coincidental events would have been really tiring in the long run, anyway....

Could be for the best.. Next time she might sneeze through sex and that'll never happen again either..

Yeah, I think you dodged the bullet there.

OP- YDI for spending 4 years with a whack-job GF- Pick yourself up, dust off and go find someone who's not nuts!!

I don't want to be insensitive but you probably dodged a bullet there. She sounds like a whackjob.

Damn, I feel sorry for you.. With that said: LOOL, doesn't sound like you lost much :)