Uh guess what you sexist asswipe. He is in NO way intitled to having blow jobs if she doesn't want to give them. I suggest you check yourself before you wreck yourself if you truely believe he is intitled to such things.

There's saying "no thanks"and then there's kicking him out and going on about it being demeaning etc etc. Despite her wanting the same. Two totally different situations.

True, having a penis in your mouth doesn't sound appealing. But neither does having your tongue up someone's cooch. Women also pee from around that area, and although there's no semen, I'm pretty sure discharge doesn't taste any better. Going down on your partner isn't about yourself, it's about pleasing them. If you're not willing to do something for your partner's pleasure, then you sure as hell better not expect them to do it for you. I think "you have to give to get" is perfectly reasonable. This girl sounds selfish, and if she doesn't smarten up, she's going to have a hard time keeping a relationship.

He also shouldn't be vilified and kicked out just for asking for something that she asks for on a constant basis.

I never said the he should be vilified or kicked out. I don't think he should be going down on her if he doesn't actually want to (maybe he does, maybe he enjoys it, I don't know). My response had really little to do with the OP. I even admitted that the girlfriend seemed fairly manipulative and hypocritical for making him go down on her just to have sex. I was simply pointing out that she may have legitimate reasons for not wanting to suck on a guy's dick, and if she doesn't want to, she shouldn't feel guilty for that. If it's going to create problems in their relationship, they either need to have a long chat or break up for being sexually incompatible.

Also, sex is really a personal thing, and no, I don't think "give to get" is a good argument, simply because people can have vastly different sexual preferences. I already mentioned the fact that a lot of women do in fact LIKE giving head, and a lot of men LIKE going down on a women. Maybe the OP is one of those men. Maybe he isn't. I have no clue. But some don't enjoy it. At all. Not because they're selfish or lazy, but simply because they just really don't enjoy it, and/or it makes them seriously uncomfortable. That's the only reason I mentioned the stuff about semen. Why is it selfish to not want to engage in a particular activity that makes you uncomfortable and/or grosses you, especially a sexual one? The way the girl treats this particular situation does sound rather hypocritical, since she's basically demanding the OP to go down on her if he wants sex. I'm not denying that. If he doesn't want to go down on her, then he shouldn't have to. Same rules apply. But that wasn't my point. It's just that a lot of people are harping on the fact that she is selfish solely because she doesn't give BJs, not caring why she does not enjoy them or whether the OP actually enjoys going down on her. All I'm saying is, if she was uncomfortable with the idea of BJs, then that doesn't automatically make her a terrible, selfish person.

As someone who has discovered the girl he was with was a squirter, orally, I can verify that it really isn't one of the best flavors in the world (at least, in my opinion).