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By clostar - This FML is from back in 2016 but it's good stuff - United States - San Francisco

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Today, I had sex with a guy I met at a party and passed out in his bed. When I woke up at 3 am, he sat up and said, "You're still here?" FML
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cheeeksss 29

What did you expect from him if you slept with him just from meeting at a party? Breakfast?

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Mathalamus 24

Probably didn't expect you to stay. Who actually just ups and leaves after sex anyway? Seems like a grievous insult...

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Mathalamus 24

Probably didn't expect you to stay. Who actually just ups and leaves after sex anyway? Seems like a grievous insult...

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Rkikkas9713 25

One night stands and stuff, they happen. I don't like them, but they happen.

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tibtak_fml 10

I guess she / he was expecting a one full night stand, not a 30 minutes - stand

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cheeeksss 29

What did you expect from him if you slept with him just from meeting at a party? Breakfast?

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Aky0n 10

I would've given her breakfast...

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SpyroMello 29

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doemetoch 28

I've never had sex with someone without either me or him making breakfast the morning after. Even if it was just a one time thing. I dunno, it's called being decent people, no? Just leaving after *******, or expecting the other to, seems rude to me.

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cheeeksss 29

I agree, it is rude. But in reality, is everyone polite? No. I was just trying to point out that if you let a guy (or girl) into your pants that quickly, they are not likely going to have much respect for you. I wanted to show OP that to avoid this from happening again, to not sleep with someone you just met at a party that night, especially if you have expectations.

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doemetoch 28

I guess I never really got the "having sex quickly = not respecting each other" thing. You find each other attractive, there's some kind of spark, you share a nice moment, give and receive pleasure,... All things that can perfectly be done with respect and esteem for the other person, and yourself. Casual sex doesn't have to be the sad thing some people seem to make out of it. But well, maybe that's just me.

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kendallskakb 13

Thank you lol I was scrolling reading like what the hell

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tibtak_fml 10

I do respect people I'm having sex with, no matter how fast we end up in each other's pants

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Remembered 14

Too bad! Hope it lead to another's embrace in another bed! ;P

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cosmic_peanut 17

at least you got laid , not like some others here ..

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Earths_Venus 25

Sounds like you had very high sexpectations. Honestly!

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evanmurphy 14

I'm pretty sure that it's normal to stay after sex.. From this FML, it sounds like he used you for sex and then expected you to leave. Hope your okay, OP

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harleyivy 7

well what else was it going to be. he met the girl a couple hours ago, and then they slept together. was he supposed to try to get an know her?

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hugtrees13 16

She expected to not be used for sex when having a one night stand? Isn't that the point?

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lexiieeex3 32

Regardless of OP's expectations, that's still incredibly rude of him.

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Soninuva 41

It's boys like you that give males a bad name. Instead of apologizing and owning up to one's actions, you attempt to shift the blame. Everyone is accountable for their own actions, they're not excused because that's what some people consider "the norm."

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Hunter_the_Ninja 22

@24: The girl is equally responsible due to her CHOICE to sleep with a guy she had only met hours earlier.

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EatZombies 10

Thank you, Hunter, for being the voice of reason and truth.

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Axel5238 29

Rude of the guy even meeting at party. Though that was the mistake right there. Hook ups at parties are fairly common and if alcohol was involved he assumed it was a drunk and horny thing. No reason not to be nice, but one kinda and unfortunately one has to expect this kind of shit. Like dating your boss or co-worker more often than not don't end well and something to avoid. Making out eh that's 1 thing, but sleeping with someone you don't know rarely ends well and kinda hard not to know with the internet it's most likely a bad idea.

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aspecialspecial 21

Zactly why I say atleast bed aging whoever you sleep with, the you know they atleast care a little bit about you and you don't deal with the stupidity of casual nonsense.

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Malsain_fml 10

Not the classiest comment you can make at 3 am. But yet, I still think the best thing to do after is to leave, after exchanging phone numbers.

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laurellkawes 31

I highly doubt he wanted her number. He already got what he wanted, booty

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Zebediabolical 39

It's always good to have someone to call at 2am for no-strings-attached sex.

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sunflower_seal 17

Unless you drove there leaving so late and under the influence isn't safe . He had sex the least he can do is share his bed until morning when you are sober and alert .

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