Hang in there

By Anonymous - 13/02/2021 02:01

Today, I'm 26-year-old woman and I've never had a date for Valentine's Day, never been on a date, or received flowers. This pandemic makes me think I never will. FML
I agree, your life sucks 973
You deserved it 183

Same thing different taste

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Don't fall into the trap of feeling bad that you're single. You don't NEED to have a boyfriend or husband; not on Valentine's Day, not on any day. Please don't feel that you've "fallen behind" because you're not a married woman :(

No no no no. Don't ever think that! Holy cow! You are so very young yet! Yes, you are. Don't worry about him yet. Go, live, and enjoy your life. Do things that make you happy, not alone things but get a paddle board, learn how to- something, rock climb, whatever. The point is is that men do do things. They get out and DO! And while you are being you and doing things one of them will notice you. You who is happy and confident and enjoying things. I was 30 before I found my Mr. Right. Been through others but...when I least expected him....

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No no no no. Don't ever think that! Holy cow! You are so very young yet! Yes, you are. Don't worry about him yet. Go, live, and enjoy your life. Do things that make you happy, not alone things but get a paddle board, learn how to- something, rock climb, whatever. The point is is that men do do things. They get out and DO! And while you are being you and doing things one of them will notice you. You who is happy and confident and enjoying things. I was 30 before I found my Mr. Right. Been through others but...when I least expected him....

Don't fall into the trap of feeling bad that you're single. You don't NEED to have a boyfriend or husband; not on Valentine's Day, not on any day. Please don't feel that you've "fallen behind" because you're not a married woman :(

I'll be your Valentine this year. Sorry we can't go out on a date because of the pandemic. And sorry I can't get you flowers. I can get you a Bulb...asaur.

You will find love, forget about the stupid holiday. I didn't have "Valentine's" (don't celebrate) until my husband ...so 28yrs old. **** Valentine's Day! All it does is make the single people depressed\annoyed and the people in relationships stress\$$ trying to make it a perfect day. You will find the one for you and until then you have many of us FML'rs willing to be your Valentine's ❤️

tounces7 27

Feeling like you "need" someone is the worst way to actually get someone.

If you have to, lower your standards. There's wayyyyy to many good people in this cruel place we call home who are only chasing the wrong ones by gluttony.

Wait what ? Is that a new way of saying "Girls only are after men who are out of their league instead of looking at the nice guys"?

The pandemic will eventually be over, probably in a year or less from now. Believe me there are plenty of guys and gals feeling lonely and horny out there. There will be a lot of mingling after this is over! You just need to get though this now. Stay safe and healthy. Don’t let the calendar and greeting card and candy companies and restaurants tell you how you are supposed to feel.

mando 10

I think one thing we all agree on is that 2020 and 2021 has been rough on everybody. I'm sorry that your love life hasnt fell into place yet. It will, hold on, it will be worth the wait.

Hi there! I just want to say that I am the same: 26 years old, never had a boyfriend. I admit there was a time I thought maybe there was something wrong with me. And then looking around, I realised that being single is not a bad thing at all. Just being with someone does not guarantee hapiness. Don't ever feel bad because you are single! There is nothing wrong with that. Do things you like, at your own pace. Also the nice thing about Valentine's Day is that chocolates are on sales. And you don't have to share them with anyone :)

Glitterbaby2613 20

I'm 27 and in same predicament, and it's not like I haven't had boyfriends I have they just haven't been gentlemanly