KEEP OUT
By Awkward - This FML is from back in 2013 but it's good stuff - United States - Redmond
By Awkward - This FML is from back in 2013 but it's good stuff - United States - Redmond
i feel as if half of you dont have children. You can just be going to the bathroom or making your kid lunch and they can get into a lot of trouble in a little amount of time. Its not that they arent supervising the child, but for gods sakes the kid is 5!!! Kids get into shit all the time people. THEY ARE KIDS! The neighbor is acting like a child and needs to be taught a lesson himself. He could have talked to his neighbor and COMMUNICATED instead of putting up an electric fence. Dont be stupid and blame the OP and the kid
NOT HIS PROBLEM. This is what parents fail to understand. I will be reasonably accommodating to any human being, child or adult. I don't want to see a child get hurt. However, many parents seem to think the age of the child matters when it is doing something rude or destructive. If your child kept coming on my property, whether or not he broke anything, then I too would get a fence. I can be sued if your child gets hurt on my property and I should not have to be responsible for watching your children. I don't care if they are just children, you chose to have them and no one else is responsible for watching, caring for, or protecting them.
97- Have you considered that the neighbour may have already tried talking to the OP? Or that it's something the kid always does? Or that some kids are absolute douche canoes? Or that the neighbour has a good reason for trying to keep the kid out of his yard e.g. unfriendly dog, renovation/landscaping work, etc etc. If you can't control your kid, then put it on a leash.
well hell, thats why they make leashes to put on children. Talk to the neighbor first and find out wtf is wron. And since OP isnt responding no one knows. But again, its a child. They are still quick little ******* and could be getting into trouble while you're asleep at night and they are supposed to be. its not possible to watch them 24/7. I highly doubt ANY of you were perfect children and didnt get into trouble for doing stupid shit that you knew was wrong. And dont deny it because thats just bull shit
Hey Mr. Wilson!!!!
Gee, your neighbor had to spend a lot of cash and time putting up an electric fence that he should never have needed in the first place. Here's a hard rule learned from hard experience. If your kid is on his property without permission, and his property isn't "kid-safe", and your kid gets hurt, it is his fault. Medical bills would be all the neighbor's responsibility. Even if he told you to keep the kid off his property. If you can't trust your kid to stay in the yard, it is on YOU to get the damn fence, or supervise you kid. Unless your kid is autistic or has other behavior problems, this is all on the OP. And I really kinda hope the neighbor sends him a bill for the cost of the fence.
Wow, must be drastic if he thinks a fence would do a better job of controlling your child than you do. YDI.
Great idea!
1. Electric fences are not that expensive and are low voltage in residential neighborhoods. 2. If the kid ends up on his property and gets hurt, then he is legally responsible for that. And that is unfair, because the neighbor did not choose to have the kid Op, and should not have to wait while you "teach" him not to enter yards or (potentially) destroy property. The guy is paying for that land and should be able to have it child-free if he so chooses. 3. People who are saying, "HE IS JUST A KID" don't seem to understand how the childless and child-free feel. I didn't give birth to the child. I did not want the kid. It is not my responsibility, or anyone else's, to watch your child. The excuses don't work, because like a dog, if it gets on my property and destroys my things you are still responsible for the cost of them. 4. It is his property, he is allowed to erect a nine foot fence as long as it is within code.
Actually #2 of this only applies if the kid was invited or allowed onto the property by the owner of the property as they would knowingly be taking on responsibility for the child, but if they had no clue the child was there and the parents were aware of the fence, then the owner of the fence is not liable for the parent letting their child roam around the neighborhood. (This applies for dogs as well. A man come onto my property and was bitten by a dog, we had warning signs posted and the dog was a trained attack and guard K9 with certification, he tried to sue and was found liable in court for trespassing and ended up paying a fine to us and covering court costs). As long as the warning signs are posted clearly, at eye level, and in multiple positions around the property it is the fault of the parent in a suit of negligence on their part for not watching their own children. I agree with you on #3, I don't have a child, I don't hate children (in fact I find them adorable and fun to be around), but that doesn't mean I want to have your children roaming into my property whenever they want while I am sitting here enjoying my life. It isn't my kid and I will not be responsible for your negligence. If your child wandered into my property, I would call protective services on the parents. (I did this once when someone's children were throwing rocks at cars as they drove by)
Actually, you can illegally trespass onto someone's property, hurt yourself and sue them. An example would be a (real story) case when a man attempted to rob a store with a gun, and then the store owner shot the robber and killed him, and was later sued by the family of the robber and ended up paying a huge sum of money to them. Just one more reason I really want to go to Canada.
You deserve it if you can't keep an eye on your kid. I don't know why this is even an issue, stop letting your child be a neighborhood menace and keep control of the child. You completely deserve this.
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What does your son do to need that? Sh** on their lawn?
To be fair, why is your 5 year old left without supervision long enough that he gets into the neighbour's yard? Watch you kid!