Negging

By f*ck - 02/05/2012 16:22 - United States

Today, I had a date with the girl I've been interested in for months. I'm pretty laid-back and casual with my friends, which backfired and caused the date to end with a slap, when I greeted her with a friendly "S'up, slut?" FML
I agree, your life sucks 8 315
You deserved it 98 422

Same thing different taste

Top comments

Unless you are close friends I see no way in which that is appropriate. YDI

Comments

ThecomingofTan 9

I actually pictured you saying this in my head: "are we going to **** or not." Would that be classified as more offensive then what you said or less?

baileygirl88 8

How is this not your fault?

Piece of advice number one: Only girls may call each other ***** in a friendly manner and only if they are very close friends and know they are just kidding around. Piece of advice number two: Never greet someone you don't know with an insult. Piece of advice number three: Here are the definitions of '****', 'laidback', 'casual' and 'jerk' in order: *An immoral or dissolute woman; prostitute. *Relaxed in style, character, or behaviour; easy-going and unhurried. *Relaxed and unconcerned. *A foolish, rude, or contemptible person. Learn them. Why? Because you were being a jerk who was insulting a girl by comparing her to someone immoral for absolutely no reason which is not being laidback or being casual, it is called being a fool. It was even more foolish of you to do it to a girl you LIKE. Piece of advice number four: Think through everything you are considering saying to people before you say it. If you know it will make them upset or angry or that is an insult or will imply something insulting, then don't say it. Especially not to a girl because they are biologically designed to analyse conversations at a faster rate and are faster at noticing insulting implications.

dougierocks 13

You are the biggest dumbass ever...

hilary56 0

I still don't see why the **** you'd say that to her? Dumbass. And if you were so 'interested' in her you respect her way too much to even think of her as a **** even if she is one. Oh and you're a douche so…yeah. :p

Why would you ever greet anyone like that, especially a date? I don't think anyone likes being called a ****, even if you were trying to be 'casual'

LeaAnne94 17