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By mcfatty - This FML is from back in 2016 but it's good stuff - India - Bangalore
By mcfatty - This FML is from back in 2016 but it's good stuff - India - Bangalore
That's really rude but maybe if you're overweight, you should try to loose some. Stress can lead to weight gain and it seems like you're stressed from school and whatnot. If you're not overweight and you're perfectly healthy, just don't worry about it.
Ignore them, at least you know you're the better person by making time for them
At least they know that you've been eating well. Don't worry family always finds fault.
And I'm sure that they're all super-slim to be able to talk about you like that.
I feel you op.. it's the same with my parents as well! whenever we get together in family gatherings, I'm the talking point of their conversations like how skinny I've gotten since the last time they saw me.. I think it's kinda sweet though in a way that they don't have much else to hold on to on us so yeah I basically laugh it out :).
I have some magic words for you: "well, when I decided to take time away from important work to spend time with you all, I didn't expect you to be so incredibly rude to me. So, I'm going to head off and do some studying. See you at Christmas!" Seriously. Your family are WAY out of line and you 100% have better things to do than sit and take it. If they want to have a good relationship with you, they can take the first step by not being complete assholes next time you see them.
Your family should just learn to roll with it.
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Ignore them, at least you know you're the better person by making time for them
I have some magic words for you: "well, when I decided to take time away from important work to spend time with you all, I didn't expect you to be so incredibly rude to me. So, I'm going to head off and do some studying. See you at Christmas!" Seriously. Your family are WAY out of line and you 100% have better things to do than sit and take it. If they want to have a good relationship with you, they can take the first step by not being complete assholes next time you see them.