Not for everyone
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Inform yourself with your girlfriend about the world of BDSM. Make sure you have a clearly established safeword before you begin and (most importantly) TALK AFTERWARDS about what happened. After-care is the most important thing in "non-consent" kinks. Of course, is she doesn't want to get informed or even get a safe word, you're right to walk away.
The thing about kinks is that *both* parties need to be either interested in indulging or acknowledging that it's a 'let's find out if *we* like this' situation. If one person isn't comfortable with it then you don't go there. If your gf can't understand that her fantasy icks you the **** out then she's not giving a shit about your feelings or preferences. You might want to sit and have a serious think about how she treats you in general, not just this attempting to force and shame you into a sex act you don't want...
It’s not for everyone
It’s not for everyone
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Inform yourself with your girlfriend about the world of BDSM. Make sure you have a clearly established safeword before you begin and (most importantly) TALK AFTERWARDS about what happened. After-care is the most important thing in "non-consent" kinks. Of course, is she doesn't want to get informed or even get a safe word, you're right to walk away.
You dodged a bullet there