Mental health, Narcissistic parents, Therapy and Health: Not helping

Not helping

By Anonymous - 28/03/2015 15:50 - United Kingdom - Horsham

Today, I had my first therapy session for the issues caused by trying to please my overbearing, paranoid, self-centred mother. The first thing she did after we started driving home? Ranting at me and demanding to know if I'd been "talking shit" about her to my therapist FML

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By :-( - 17/07/2013 05:22 - Australia - Rozelle

Today, I finally convinced my mum to take me to a psychologist. As soon as he sat me down and asked me how I was doing, my mum burst into tears and went on a rant about how her life is terrible and she regrets everything. I was asked to sit in the waiting room. She used up my whole hour. FML

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By Anonymous - 25/08/2019 19:00 - Pakistan - Islamabad

Today, going to my psychiatrist's appointment for my PTSD and depression, my mother yelled about how useless I am and how I torture her existence with my "abnormalities." She told the doctor how much I've improved and become such a delight at home for her and our family. FML

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Main character syndrome

By Anonymous - 10/02/2024 23:00

Today, my mom found out I’m in therapy and took it as an insult, like therapy was a criticism of her parenting. Um, maybe if she hadn’t spent my childhood telling me and everyone in our family that having me was an accident, that I’ve been a huge burden, and that she should have aborted me. FML

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By Screwed Up - 09/05/2013 05:30 - United States

Today, I went to therapy. I started talking about my childhood and my life. By the time the session was over my therapist was crying. FML

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Pray the pain away

By bad religion - 28/05/2021 17:01

Today, I was crying to my sister that my therapist office messed up and didn’t schedule my appointment. My mom overheard and yelled, "You don’t need that mess anyway! Just pray about it!” Being raised with her religious fanaticism is what led to my insomnia, anxiety, depression, and guilt complex. FML

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By misi - 22/06/2019 16:00

Today, my mother threw a fit because the psychologist she got me suggested I visit a psychiatrist. Apparently, it's my fault because I "choose" to be so "crazy". FML

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By the only sober one - 15/05/2013 06:21 - United States - San Diego

Today, as usual, my mom got shitfaced and started berating me for something. This time, it was for missing a therapy appointment. Not only am I unable to drive, it was her appointment. For her alcoholism. FML

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By thxmom - 04/01/2015 17:25 - United States - West Jordan

Today, I learned that my mother has been telling people that I need anger management. I'm not attending anger management, I'm attending therapy to aid in my recovery from abusive relationships. She doesn't understand the difference or why I find it upsetting. FML

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You deserved it 2 538

Insanity

By mental - 02/09/2019 18:01 - United States - Norfolk

Today, I had my first appointment with my new therapist. After I told her my family history and past abusive situations, she looked at me and asked, "How are you still sane?" FML

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You deserved it 153

Bad start

By Nathan - 23/03/2009 20:09 - United States

Today, I went to see a therapist for the first time because I've been feeling depressed lately. I opened up and said everything that was on my mind. I really spilled my guts. After a good 30 minutes, her first question was, "Do you always talk this much?" FML

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nchic01 17

Sunday 29 March 2015 6:32

sounds like your mother is the one who needs the therapist

CitricAcid 21

Sunday 29 March 2015 6:32

What a bitch... Really sorry you have to deal with her, OP. I hope things will get better for you.

Comments

nchic01 17

Sunday 29 March 2015 6:32

sounds like your mother is the one who needs the therapist

Doubtful_Judge 23

Sunday 29 March 2015 7:56

A therapist, a mental therapist. A mental asylum. Perfect!

AllSoul 23

Sunday 29 March 2015 14:32

Maybe they should try a session together.

laden_swallow09 34

Sunday 29 March 2015 14:49

41- I reeeeally don't see that working out well. At the very least, not anytime soon.

Shadowvoid 33

Sunday 29 March 2015 18:32

Sounds like a plot twist to a sitcom, except for the fact that OP's mother has real problems.

CitricAcid 21

Sunday 29 March 2015 6:32

What a bitch... Really sorry you have to deal with her, OP. I hope things will get better for you.

buttcramp 21

Sunday 29 March 2015 20:09

i too hope things get better for you, OP. My advice would be to save your money so you can move out as soon as you can. My parents were pretty nuts too, once i moved out i had more appropriate boundaries with my parents.

AvAfan 14

Sunday 29 March 2015 6:33

Therapist. The rapist. Coincidence? I think not

iiTzNeeNerz 26

Sunday 29 March 2015 6:56

Let me explain why you're about to get down voted; just so it doesn't come of as a shock: 1.) In no way is your comment relevant to the FML. 2.) If it were, rape is not something to joke about.

Jason89 16

Sunday 29 March 2015 7:44

wtf #3?

LastResort318 14

Sunday 29 March 2015 7:46

Comment moderated for rule-breaking.

Show it anyway

upallnight11 19

Sunday 29 March 2015 14:35

Not everyone is like your brother, jsyk

AllSoul 23

Sunday 29 March 2015 14:35

Wow, I've never known anyone who's made jokes about them being raped.

FubarBundy1988 13

Sunday 29 March 2015 15:44

#24 that's exactly why you can't joke about it! Just because your brother handles it that way does not mean that everybody that has been raped handles it that way. I would actually say your brothers way is a very rare way.

fuckedPriceless 17

Sunday 29 March 2015 17:57

My sister was raped and jokes about it too. I have no doubt I would as well if it happened to me. People should stop being so sensitive...

FubarBundy1988 13

Monday 30 March 2015 12:09

#64 Did you ever think the people being "sensitive" have a reason to be?

speakfreely 21

Sunday 29 March 2015 6:34

Maybe your mom should be the one seeing a shrink instead, sorry you have to deal with that OP

Nathan_Henry 15

Sunday 29 March 2015 6:36

Oh moms, they sure can be a pain in the ass sometimes

whycantisignup 24

Sunday 29 March 2015 13:47

No, that's dads.

laden_swallow09 34

Sunday 29 March 2015 14:47

Why not both?

Roythetickler 21

Sunday 29 March 2015 16:14

*Mexican music

Sagedrop 10

Sunday 29 March 2015 16:52

Translation: Cries in Spanish.

riahlum 12

Sunday 29 March 2015 6:36

Just get away from the bitch. Other people care. Key to success? **** bitches get money.

Mermaidhead 13

Sunday 29 March 2015 6:47

^ Abraham Lincoln

miaaxoxxo 16

Sunday 29 March 2015 6:37

I know how you feel OP. my mom is the same way, don't let her get to you. you're a strong independent person who will succeed in anything you put your mind to!

FubarBundy1988 13

Sunday 29 March 2015 17:16

I completely agree. Also when you have children (if you don't already?) you will strive to be a better mother than your own and your child will benefit from it.