Not helping

By Anonymous - 28/03/2015 15:50 - United Kingdom - Horsham

Today, I had my first therapy session for the issues caused by trying to please my overbearing, paranoid, self-centred mother. The first thing she did after we started driving home? Ranting at me and demanding to know if I'd been "talking shit" about her to my therapist FML
I agree, your life sucks 30 790
You deserved it 2 336

Same thing different taste

Top comments

sounds like your mother is the one who needs the therapist

What a bitch... Really sorry you have to deal with her, OP. I hope things will get better for you.

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serslybro 20

Maybe suggest family therapy in the future? If she's so worried that you were talking trash she probably (at least subconsciously) realizes that there are some things she could work on..

Wait. Do we have the same mother?! I know what you're going through! Please know that you aren't alone and things CAN change for the better!

Is there any reason you need to be near your mother? I mean physical reasons, like you live with her (or need to carpool). It sounds like you need to put some distance between you and your mother She sounds like a negative person and you should keep negative people as far away as possible.

martin8337 35

I would have told her that I was talking shit about her the entire session, and will do during every session thereafter.

i know what that is like, add crack head to the mix and you got my mother. the first thing i needed to kearn was, that the word 'adult' is just a word to describe someone over a certain age, their mentality is not in question. ive dropped contact with my mum, lets hope your mother learns before it comes to that. good luck.

I would take the bus to and from therapy. you should spend the whole next session talking shit about her

SauceySarah 30

wow my relationship with my mom in a nutshell. Good luck OP. I know how it feels.

havahnegila 22

Your sessions with your psychiatrist are private and your mother cannot ask your therapist to tell her what you told him. Just keep the peace, and redirect the conversation. You are better off not confronting her and continuing to go to therapy.

You have better odds of success if you start creating distance between you and her now