If your man is wanting that and you love him, then you should suck it up (at least every once in a while).

I don't blame you for saying no, but it could have hurt his feelings, even if the timing was off. Imagine if you came into the room looking sexy with lingerie and heels on and he was like, "No thanks, babe, I'm too tired." Although he has the right to say no, it could hurt your ego a bit.

Anyone ever think, "She gave no information about herself." She could be a fifteen-year-old, or just doesn't want to go that far yet. And yet so many people are saying, "Why not? Go do it!" If you do have a sexual relationship, I agree you should be open to considering your partner's wishes, but let's not assume too much here. We could easily be telling a young teenage girl with a new boyfriend, "Hey, go suck his dick because he wants you to!" Yeah, that would be great advice for the next generation.

Oh, and I also hate when people say, "If you don't do it, someone else will." Ok, so let them! I'd rather keep my morals and limits intact and let my partner leave and be happy with a person that will be happy "doing it".

I'd tell you to get out too. Suck the D or get the **** out.

I'd think the syrup was shit.

Wow, the people saying "You should have done it" Sicken me. how do you know she isn't comfortable with giving him a BJ? Sex isn't what a relationship is about and he should have respected OP's decision.

I'm having a hard time thinking up an excuse to not lick it off..

Don't mind him, op. He'd have to pretty selfish/immature to start a fight over that. And I personally think his request is something you should only do if YOU want to.

I see why he would be mad.. I wish my man would suggest stuff like that