That does kinda suck. But at least your husband asked before doing anything. Here's an idea, make a compromise, you guys could do a threesome

SAY YES

At least, he was polite enough to ask.

Hey, give the guy some credit. Atleast he asked. HAHH! x

I call fake........sounds like someone saw the movie "Extract"

Your life is not F. Seriously. How do you know this is not something they have discussed. Most open and honest couples will have discussed this at some point in their relationships. The only married couples who haven't discussed this are the repressed ones who don't talk to each other, which will probably lead to them breaking up in the long term anyway. I know my wife and I have our "list" of 5 people that ever given the opportunity would sleep with. Though if I was presented with said opportunity I would still ask that person if I could get a 3-some with my wife out of the deal. ;) Perhaps this was the 1 free pass they may have discussed seemingly in jest early in their relationship and the wife was either joking or forgot out? Who knows. But the fact he asked shows he wouldn't want to jeopardize your marriage for some fling, hence he asks the question. Op, all you have to do is say no. He gave you that choice. And this could be your one chance to get something on the side without fear of repercussion. But whatever you do, keep talking and keep the other person involved. Otherwise whatever you decide could end your marriage.

http://ibnlive.in.com/news/most-wives-would-divorce-if-they-could-afford-it/56801-19.html?from=search-relatedstories ___________________________________ I know that news is old. It's probably a higher percent now. Let's hope the OP isn't trapped like that. Definitely an FML here :(

There's a simple solution to this: it's called "threesome".

so let's try to pass an FML about it

haha I am one of thoes hot secretaries. And I flirt with all the married guys. Its just the office.