Say hell no to the affair, but agree to a threesome. He won't cheat and he'll think you're awesome :D

Say yes and get yourself also an affair. :) Or say no of course.

well? IS she hot?

ugh.. i dont understand how people don't seem to get the problem here.. although he asked her first which is 'considerate' of him, it's still not acceptable, since he has thoughts of having an affair. he's married. there may be other reasons that has caused this, but it's stupid of us to assume it's because she's not satisfying him enough or whatever. seems to me the guy just wasnted to screw his 'hot' secretary. he should have had a better grip of himself. and for those who suggested threesome, while some women may agree to that, i think it's more for the pleasure of the man (unless the girl swings that way). so OP im so sorry to hear that and your life is ******.

Threesome

a good marriage takes work. although what he said was hurtful, maybe he's trying to make a point. if the sex stays missing from your marriage he plans to get it elsewhere.

get rid of him now, even if he sayd he wont cheat you know now he will. you cant trust him anymore, all men are the same, you'd be better off on your own. maybe you'll find someone better.

He's already having an affair. I think, even if he wasn't, run, run very far away.

YDI for owning heelies

you people cant take a joke lol