All these comments are ridiculous. Yes, it's good that he was honest, but it doesn't mean the wife is a prude or something just because she wasnts her husband to stay faithful! Unless they decided on an open marriage in advance (which they obviously didn't, since she's upset about it,) she's well within her rights to say "hell no."

At least your husband asked you. It doesn't hurt to ask. Get over it, OP.

At least he asked! Quit being a bitch and give him a 3 some!

Did u reply??

at least he asked:)

Sounds like he loves and still want you to be his wife but you specifically aren't satisfying him in the bed room. It is actually common in japan for a husband to have a wife and a mistress as long as he is in love with his wife and his mistress is only to get off.

Except real Geisha didn't sleep with the man. They were escorts, hostesses and many other things.

it doesnt really matter if he asked, she probably feels really insecure about herself now :(

This has got to be a fake....something tells me a husband wouldn't just say "hey sweetie, do you mind if I cheat on you with this uber hot girl over there? Thanks, love you!"

It's totally a FML...some guys can just be jerks it doesn't matter if you're sexing them plenty they have an agenda that has nothing to do with love or respect...before meeting my husband I was dating a guy whom I found out I was 1of 4 girlfriends he had...didn't catch on right away cause i had my own life and job but one day while he was in the shower he left his cell phone on my dresser I saw texts where the girl was discussing having a baby w/ him. Honestly I'd probably go to jail if he asked me something like that cause i'd beat the crap out of him if i were her. i say divorce him you know his thoughts lean towards being unfaithful...you don't deserve a jerk like this.