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By Anonymous - 15/01/2014 18:25 - Italy - Pistoia

Today, I found out that the generous gift from my boyfriend of a new iPhone was only given so he could use the "Find my phone" function to make sure I'm always where I say I am each day. I'm being stalked by my own boyfriend. FML
I agree, your life sucks 55 200
You deserved it 8 957

Same thing different taste

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Be cautious, as my ex tried that same thing on me. His reasoning for it turned out to be because he was cheating on me, and wanted to make sure I wasn't doing the same! (I wasn't) Enjoy though!

My parents do this. It sucks. Just turn off location services.

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adam_tajyar 10

U can turnoff the "Find my iPhone" or delete it off ur iPhone. If it's not on the device ur trying to find, it can't be tracked

Nacker323 4

and that's how you know you're dating a controlling prick.

Turn off the cell data and wifi, he can't track you then

Get out...now. You don't need any one that insecure and controlling in your life. It is only a sign of worse behavior to come.

JoseIsAdork 31

op, I would run and run fast! to me that is a huge red flag right there. most people who have control issues do it out of insecurity or at least that's what I've witnessed first hand and will go to any length to find out "what's really going on". I would put an end to this while you can, I hope everything is OK, but that's a huge red flag in my eyes, I wouldn't stick around.

I'd dump his ass. if there is no trust in a relationship, it's time to move on.

JoseIsAdork 31

another thing I hope it was OK to add to your comment was that a lot of the time upon trying to leave someone who is very controlling they will say "if you leave me I'll end my life" and use other threats ect. but if a situation like that comes up... get out, call 911 if there is a chance of something happening, let the policed handle it. don't ever stick around though. I have had this happen to me before, usually when someone takes drastic measures like this, it only gets worse from there. I agree that getting out now is the best thing to do! *edit*

Go to a club and see a male stripper, then text your boyfriend about it. Oh, and don't forget to say "His is bigger, and tastes better."

Hey, so I'm not trying to be a negative nancy.. But I think you might need a new boyfriend. By tracking your phone he's showing signs of controlling behaviour, I wonder if he also gets mad at you frequently over things that you didn't do or don't even understand how you could've done them .. I dated someone who was psychologically abusive for a long time. I understand you may love him and think that "it's not that bad" or "things are good as well" but you see eventually the good goes away and it is replaced by the bad. Best of luck to you, if you think you may need help there are probably many outreach places for you to call. I also realize this May piss you off but hey, at least you'll think about what I said. xx