If you're 14, you're not legally allowed to live on your own. That doesn't make OP immature. They're also not really old enough, if they're in fact 14, to experiment with drugs or alcohol, but that's a story for another time. Wanna be a little more tolerant with how long people are allowed to stay living with their parents for?

If you are young enough, as in 14 years old, to be legally required to live under the care of your parents and if you're going to be stupid enough to be getting ****** up and having sex then you should at the very least try to avoid having pictures of said events, or at the bare minimum avoid letting friends have those pictures, and at the ABSOLUTE bare minimum, even after having done all the things before this try to avoid getting on the wrong side of the others who you have allowed to possess the evidence of you ******* around. In short, if you don't want your parents knowing that you like being ****** up, don't be a dipshit as well.

What happens if the OP for example didn't know the picture had been taken until afterward, and the "friend" refused to give up possession? There's really nothing they can do then aside from not partake in those activities, but teenagers in general experiment. They aren't going to stop simply because their parents say it's bad... they may not even stop when someone takes a picture and proves they've been up to "no good".

I should also add that there is nothing "****** up" about having sex in one's teenage years.

Okay, I thought this was a general slang, but I guess not, alright, being "****** up" refers to being drunk and/or stoned, not to having sex. If OP knew that someone had pictures of them taken in these compromising situations without her consent then she should have been less of a dumb **** and STAYED OFF HIS BAD SIDE. And I'm also pretty sure if OP is under the age of 18 it is illegal for someone to possess pictures of them in a sexually compromising situation with or without consent, the dumb bitch should go to the cops. I would also like to clarify that as someone who is 17 and does have sex and do drugs I don't disagree with teenagers doing drugs or having sex, okay? The difference is I am smart about it, there is no photographic evidence of these events in my case, and if there was I would posses them, and if I didn't I would be damn well careful to not get on the bad side of those who did.

I'm not sure why you CHOSE TO STRESS YOUR POINT like that... I never said that OP was in the right at all. I agree, she should have stayed off his bad side. There's no need to get snippy with me because I feel it's a bad idea to have sex/partake in alcohol or drugs during the EARLY teen years. Most people in their EARLY teens are immature and can't properly handle themselves. My original post mentioned the age of 14. I was still going on that tangent. Okay? As an older teen, you're able to better understand the consequences and you know how to (hopefully) take care of yourself. That being said, I've seen people my age or older acting more immature than say, a 17 year old like yourself. I hope you know what 'in general' means, since GENERALLY most teens under the age of 18 can't handle themselves.

This is all pointless because for all you know the OP is 20-something and lives with his/her parents ... Or they have financial control over the OP ... Where did all these numbers come from ?

We're all speaking hypothetically, in case you didn't notice. I never once stated that OP was in fact any particular age.

Your post wasn't funny. You aren't going to like this fact, so by your own logic you should go suck a fat one.

You have been misinformed...