It is very very easy to tell them both to **** off. Really. There is, however, A Lot of information you don't have here. Firstly, I agree your life sucks, no doubt. Secondly, Gather your facts, talk with both of them, then make your choices. 8 years is a long time to just throw out without all the info. Although the urge to trash his laptop is, in fact, strong, I suggest being the better person. *shrugs* That's just me.

Play stupid and tell him, "Hey! you banged my girlfriend's dobbleganger!" He'll hesitate for a second to reciprocate, and right after it sinks in you'll deliver him a nice fresh hit wherever you'd like. The face is good. But downstairs is recommended.

Bang his laptop with a hammer.

Pow right in the kisser Pow right in the kisser

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My question is: Why did he videotape it? I mean, I get the general idea, but to take a video of something that he shouldn't of done and saved it to his laptop sounds a bit moronic.

wow.....op.....that's a problem. maybe he was trying to come clean in his own way. i would let her go. if she couldn't tell you herself she doesn't deserve to keep you.

Maybe she's annoyed that it's been 8 years and she still only has "girlfriend" status. Meanwhile your "friend" recorded it as blackmail and to prove he can have what you have. Also, have you had any period through the 8 years where you have taken a break? Could have happen then or right before you got together.

You have a terrible friend I would confront him about it and dump your girlfriend

I would have hurt him so badly...