How do you get to misogyny just from him asking her if she can do his laundry? People can do their partner a favour without it being some sort of discrimination.

Uh, what? He asked her to do a last load of his laundry because she was already doing it. I don't see anywhere where he "expected" it because she's a woman. You're really reaching on this one.

Well, if he 'can't wipe himself' then I guess she must do 'everything' for him

I'd suggest leaving while you're just slightly behind. The way you're going, you're only making things worse and worse. Either admit to having jumped the gun a bit, or simply give this one up.

So, any guy who asks his girlfriend for any favors ever is a misogynist? That sounds like a totally healthy outlook on relationships. What makes you so certain he doesn't do anything for her ever?

Ok.......my bad. I may have exaggerated a wee bit

#29 just calm down.......there there ;)

I'm sorry, but doing someone else's laundry is not misogynistic in any way. It's easy enough to separate and combine clothes if you separate by color.

I think she jumped to this conclusion because he was only saying so to impress his friends, and it backfired.

OP, do you have digestive/intestinal problems and get diarrhea often? If so, I can kind of understand that happening. It's best to clean your underwear with soap and water in the sink the best you can so other people don't have to deal with that. Otherwise, you should learn to wipe properly.