Who else thought she was talking about baseball?

I don't know how old you are, but I'd suggest you don't get caught up with your younger sisters immature ramblings about 'bases'.. there's no rules to intimacy between two consenting persons. Its true most people kiss before they do sexual things, but you don't necessarily need to follow the herd just for the sake of following the herd. Its your life and your own personal experience between you and him, its nobody else's business. What things you guys do and what order you do them in doesn't matter. It just matters that you have fun and do it in a safe manner. I think that people structuring out the way they believe everyone should be intimate and what order its done in, and calling them rules, is stupid and immature. Then to label you a **** for not doing things in the order that they want you to do them in is even worse. That's not what a **** is, and to any half intelligent and slightly mature person you're obviously not a ****. My girlfriend and I were more hands on, feeling each other up before our first kiss. But now we will go right to having sex without any kissing or foreplay sometimes and other times we will have plenty of kissing and foreplay first.. its really just whatever the moment calls for, and just as long as everyone is comfortable with it. Don't be hard on yourself.

"bases" lol.

166 You make a good point but I have to disagree. Giving someone a ******* without touching and kissing first isn't very intimate and the only purpose is to achieve sexual pleasure without the emotions. Sounds like a transaction between a prostitute and a john. I know we don't know the whole story but still I would say this sounds like something a **** would do. It takes a lot to understand sex but if you made an adult decision to go to third base then that's fine. It isn't only about the pleasure but feeling close to someone you love.

Why would you tell your 13 year old you've banged?

At first I thought OP was talking about baseball

Ich sehe, Sie Deustch sprechen

Without even realizing it? Have you been living in a cave? ydi