The fact that he calls it a list sounds like a crazy in the making. I wouldn't “just be friends.” I’d actively try to avoid any interaction whatsoever. He sounds entitled and potentially dangerous.

Well, looks like someone does not like 'no' for an answer. I don't think he was looking for a girlfriend, he was looking for a second mom who does everything at home. Bullet dodged.

This seems to be a common theme among momma's boys. They're so freaking terrible at understanding the concept of hygiene it's unbelievable.

OP, he certainly sounds like a loser as you described him. I have to wonder why you got involved with a “mommy’s boy” with poor hygiene in the first place. I wonder if you have some compulsion to take on a “project” or if you have self confidence issues. Maybe you need to reconsider your dating standards to avoid this sort of thing. Or maybe you need to fix yourself up a bit to attract a better class person. I have come to the conclusion that in breaking up with someone the smartest thing to do is to make a clean break and not give them the “let’s just be friends” line. Intelligent people know that means it over, but some people will take that as not a complete turn down and have false hopes of rekindling or starting a romantic relationship. You don’t want those people stalking you. People deserve to be told the truth - If it’s over, it’s over and as my wife says “goodbye, good luck”. There is no need to be cruel, but leaving false hope of a relationship that will never be is ultimately cruel.

Incel.

toxic entitled incels, the least self-aware people on the planet.

Who tf said she deserves it